I miss him way to much am i normal?

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well i've been going out with this guy for about almost 2 and a half years, we haven't seen each other for that long and we always talk to each other and we usually see each other on Webcam but its not enough anymore...I want to be near him and i can't unfortunately i can't go over seas just yet and i don't want to break up with him i just love him so much it kinda sucks that i can't see him because i really want him to know that i love him by showing him (kissing him and being with him)
I don't know what to do should i tell him i miss him?
He's told me a couple of times that he misses me alot but i don't know help me am i normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    yes it is and either break up, show more on webcam if u know what i mean or travel to see him.

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  • Sexiness2010
    14 years ago

    hi every one. i just got out of this relationship where everything was going good until a girl confronted me about him...i inturn had an argument with the girl and he broke up with me..now every night i dream of us being together again and i still converse with him..wat do i do? i love him so much but it seems as if he doesn't know how much he means to me. so wat do i do about everything? plz help me.

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  • GalacticEgg
    14 years ago

    Doesn't sound like real love to me. Real love requires no physical presence or even communication. If communicating, even through webcam, just 'isn't enough anymore', then it sounds like you've fallen out of love with this guy yet still wish to 'possess' him as an object (which happens very very often within intimate relationships).

    Miss him all you like, want to be 'with' him all you like, but don't call the chemical high of sex and affection "love", because in this case, it is very much not.

    Adopt the value of honesty, in the sense of always seeking the Truth. Become a person who is aware of what a real, uniquely human thing Love is.

    Unfortunately for humanity, by the way, your 'missing him' is quite normal.

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  • jLL18
    14 years ago

    No way i did not see my gf for about a year in a half and you know she moved 5 min away from me and iv been with her for 2 and a half years i think the time apart will make u stronger when you are together :)

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  • beachmike
    14 years ago

    I know what you are feeling. Your miserable because you love him so much yet you've never been with him in person. Phone and web cams can be misleading. You need to tell him how you feel! The next step is to spend a lot of time with him in person.

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  • Orochi
    14 years ago

    yeah it's very normal. I'm just wondering why you two live so far apart? Why don't you live together?

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  • fivetwozero
    14 years ago

    I just left a relationship in that (literally) same situation.

    It really comes down to motivation. How far and how much are you willing to go/put in to keep the relationship strong? If you become pre-occupied with your life, your relationship will eventually break down. Distance really takes a toll.

    If you can keep sight your shared goal of stick with it, then you're fine. It's totally normal though, sorry if my offered input was unnecessary.

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