I miss him this much

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Recently I made this post about leaving this guy I was kind of dating online, so I guess this is the follow-up question. Even when we used to chat for all those months, I used to think about him even when we weren't talking online. I decided to break up because he lived too far away and I was becoming too attached and uncertain about him. But now I feel even more attached and uncertain, having said goodbye. I can't even bring myself to delete him. I just want to contact him gain and say I miss you...
The reality is it's over and what I really want to know is how to deal with this and stop thinking about him.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Get out and spend more time in the real world and don't look back.

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  • pastor_of_muppets
    9 years ago

    You sound familiar... I think it's probably you.

    Look. Nobody can tell you what to do - they can only help you by telling you about their own experiences.

    If you really believe it is in your best interest to take him back...do it...but you will only be trying to feed an unfillable void.

    I still say you should just try and forget about him.

    If you want another alternative... create a new online persona and find that person... flirt with him and see how quickly an online person can "get over" you. it will probably destroy you inside.

    I give you this knowledge to only use for Good. Remember that with great power comes great responsibility

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    The only way I know to get over the loss of a relationship is to get out of the house and start dating again. I realize this was an online thing, but I'd be inclined to suggest you get out and find a person IRL to spend time with.

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  • fatmonkey
    8 years ago

    Call him tell him your feelings. SEX!!!!

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