I'm wound so tight i'm about to explode!

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My wife's new boss has started to hit on her. She has told this dude to knock it off. He chilled out for a few days then stared in again. My wife dose not want to go over this guy's head with a complaint at this time because she says this guy has not touched her or said anything vulgar and she feels that it wound be seen as a micky mouse complant. She works in a office where office politics can hurt you if you are not careful. Her job pays well. Well it just so happens that a friend of mine knows where this douche bag hangs out at night. My wife doesn't know it, but I'm about to pay this motherfucker a visit. Under the circumstances, would this be a normal confrontation? I know that kicking his ass will not help things so I can restrain myself from getting violent. But a little man to man talk is in order here. Don't you think?

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    If I were you, I'd buy her a small recording device and get this harassment on tape/disc. Then she can go above his head and he'll be out the door in a heartbeat. Nobody will dare retaliate against her if she has tapes.
    I assume this is the US? Every company is terrified of sexual harassment suits these days.
    As for you confronting this creep; way to go if you want your wife to lose her job. Put your macho ego on the back burner and use your brains, not your brawn.

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    • Wildberries45
      8 years ago

      I like your idea it sounds like solid evidence. I think he should appear at work and show that jerk, she's not alone and has support. Then she should complain because HE won't stop.

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  • VinnyB
    8 years ago

    Yea that makes sense. She is afraid ro report it because she is afraid of it causing her problems at work. But you stalking thr guy on his private time and confronting him which could develop into who knows should be much less problematic for her. Really?

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  • Faceless
    8 years ago

    Noo. That would hurt your wifes job. Just wear a balaclava, catch him in the parking lot and swing a pool ball in a sock right at his dick! Then run away and shout, "YOU KNOW WHAT YOU DID!" And if he doesnt know what he did then find where he lives and do it again.

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  • howaminotmyself
    8 years ago

    Don't be that guy. She should talk to other coworkers, see if it a habit of his. If there are compaby socials, attend them together.

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  • la-la-la-la-la-la
    8 years ago

    I think that is EXACTLY what you need to do. Just plop your ass on the bar stool next to Deuche Bag, order yourself and him a drink. With fresh drinks in respective hands, do the clink the glasses thing and introduce yourself ______'s husband and there have been several stories of her being hit on.

    When he starts in with the "Well I never.." or presses for specifics and he said/she said proof yada yada, interrupt/cut him off and explain you're not interesting in the past details involving him or any one else in that department. Instead you're just here to enlist his support and would appreciate his doing whatever he can reasonably do on his end to mitigate another "story".

    Toss back your drink. Slap a $20 on the bar. Nod to the bartender and say "Keep the change". Rise up off the barstool, give Deuche Bag an affirming head nod and head on out the door without looking back.

    It'll be crickets from that point on.

    Oh, and don't say anything to your wife. As long as Deuche Bag doesn't feel it's being rubbed in his face daily by any attitude on your wife's part, that'll take care of it.

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  • Wildberries45
    8 years ago

    You should tell you wife to report it. I also think you should have a word with that jerk! No violence just show him that it's bother to you and your wife. He needs to know his place!

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    So he's staring at her? I don't see much point in reporting that, no-one would take it seriously, and if that's all that's happening neither do I.

    If that's all he's doing, can't she just ignore it? Or look him up and down, smile in a superior manner and turn away?

    Sorry, but the small minority of women making a huge fuss about such trivialities make it more difficult for women who really are being sexually harrassed and give feminism a bad name.

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