I'm white, i've never dated a black man and i don't want to.

Is it normal?

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I'm only interested in dating white men, if a black/Bangladeshi (whatever non-white race...) man shows interest in me, I'm not interested at all. I've always known that I want a white boyfriend and eventually a white husband.

I don't understand how white women can date black men but I have had crushes on black men, just no one in real life yet. Am I racist or is it just a preference? Should I at least start dating other races or is there no point?

Sexually, I'm ONLY attracted to white men so please don't say anything about black men being bigger or better, I'm not interested in that.

I also know that I'm extremely ignorant but I'm trying to open my mind.

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Comments ( 53 )
  • RoseIsabella

    It's not racist, it's your preference, and you have a right to your preference. You weren't born with your God given freewill just so you you could give it up to political correctness which is the collective peer pressure of our age. Date who you want, date those to whom you're attracted, because it's your life after all. I only ask as an older woman that you try to date someone with whom you are compatible and share common interests. Date those who respect you as person. Don't accept anything less. Always remember self esteem is not something you can beg, borrow or steal, it's not for sale at the corner store.

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    • NyanStrike

      I disagree. People can have types and preferences but you can't rule out an entire race because some other race is more your type. It's totally normal to imagine your dream guy as a white man, but you have to give black men a chance. And when I say give them a chance, I don't mean necessarily dating one, but just be open to the idea of dating one.

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    • LillyD

      Im a mixed race woman my mothers white and my father is black and i prefure black men so i only have intresst in dating black men iv always been like that ,i have dated one white man years ago but i think that was a one off.

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      • RoseIsabella

        My mom is Colombian and my father is Anglo-American, and I've never been significantly attracted to non-white men. Maybe there's a slight Freudian element for both of us, but it could just be dumb luck? My man is a strawberry-blond of primarily Irish-American ancestry who says he may have some African-American heritage. We both wanna get DNA tests from Ancestry.com! I think we're all more mixed than we know.
        :-)

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  • Lifeistooshorttotakeseriously

    For a true multicultural experience turn the bedroom light off. All proud black men become white in the dark and white men look like orientals - or whatever non white race you'd like. It's actually quite amazing. Then again I think your bulb may have blown sometime ago...

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  • Hey'sForHorses00

    There's nothing wrong with knowing what you want. Although it is pretty hurtful to judge other women's preferences :/
    I don't think you're racist at all. Don't do anything you don't want, but do try to keep an open mind.
    It's possible for a black man to love you more than a white one. It all depends on the man <3

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  • Reallyusuck

    A sexual preference is not racist. Believing blacks briwns and white are not
    equal is racist.

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    • RoseIsabella

      Hello! Thanks for the healthy dose of reality.
      ;-)

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  • matthewkoehler

    That's perfectly fine, nobody is forcing you to date men of other cultures. No need to be feel pressured by political correctness.

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  • McBean

    It works like this. You look carefully at a black cock, a yellow cock, and a white cock. Which ones look interesting? What? Only the white one?

    That means you know what you want. Now go for a ride!

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  • bigboigroove

    Sexual preference is just that. you're under no obligation to date anyone you don't like. if you like chicken then order and enjoy your chicken, don't order steak cuz everyone around you is eating steak, get your chicken and be happy.

    If however, you feel that you might have a particular prejudice about dating or sleeping with a black man lurking in your subconscious, and that you might be choosing white because it's a safer notion, then maybe see a shrink about that...and try to figure out if some event at one time might of triggered something or other... i don't know.. thats for you to decide.

    and finally, if you're claim really is that you only date white men because you feel that black men are inferior to white men...that they are just not up to par... then yes dear, thats pretty much right up racist alley. But guess what...that STILL your choice and you're STILL under no obligation to date a black man etc... do what makes you happy.

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  • Rick_Bawls

    It is normal. They have low IQs, criminal propensities, and smell like wild animals

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  • Sara0303

    Totally normal

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  • DuHast

    Most people are like this. It just sounds racist depending on how you say it...

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  • Curiousme1981

    It's normal whatever floats your boat ;)

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  • mysistersshadow

    You like what you like nothing wrong with that. I'm white and have no interest in guys that aren't white. I don't see a problem with my preference.

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    • Rayden1991

      No one is interested in having sex with you either

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      • mysistersshadow

        LOL.

        You don't have to be so bitter about being a virgin living at home mom will die soon and you'll have the whole house to yourself and you can even move out of the basement.

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        • Rayden1991

          Lol go back to corner were you belong go make some $$$

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          • mysistersshadow

            LOL aren't you just soooo clever. Keep trying jackass.

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            • Rayden1991

              Aren't you soon immature I'm I hurting your feelings little girl.are you old enuf to to be on this site ?

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  • Rayden1991

    Me I love all races only had sex with black,native,white, but one thing I noticed white woman moan more and their pussy lips look a bit different..me I would fuck white woman but never marry one

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    • RoseIsabella

      That sounds pretty shallow, like you want to use white women, like white women are just objects to you. I'm not interested in having sex with anyone I wouldn't be willing to marry.

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      • mysistersshadow

        Aw Rose you know he be lying he never had sex with a girl who last name not jpeg.

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        • bigboigroove

          Bravo. that was good..lolol first time reading that..i'm gonna have to steal it. lol

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          • mysistersshadow

            Go for it. Its public domain.

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        • RoseIsabella

          Oh, He'll yeah, girl!
          *high five and paws up*
          >:-D
          ☆♡☆♡☆♡☆♡

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      • Rayden1991

        You seem like some church going girl or something how come you always on this sex site?

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    • mysistersshadow

      "Native"? Native to what you dipshit? Every place in the world that has ppl has a NATIVE population.

      OMFG.... I couldn't take it and had to look up what a "Rayden" was... a fucking video game character. I was right you are a virgin living in your moms basement. Are you even old enough to be on the internet unsupervised? That is to funny I can't take anyone serious that uses the name of a video game character grow the fuck up ans come back when your old enough to be on this "sex site". LOL.

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      • Rayden1991

        And when I said native I meant first nations retard first people

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        • mysistersshadow

          Right... Every place has natives and Every one is the native of some where. Were you born stupid or did you have to work at it?

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          • Rayden1991

            We're are you from I meant first Nations retarded...do you no what what is ?look it up in the dictionary it will tell you

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            • mysistersshadow

              Sorry I don't speak canadian have you ever heard a canadian speak French now thats retarded.

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      • Rayden1991

        Did I hurt your feelings I could care less what you think...go back sucking old dick in mind your own business ok .. what kinda name is my sister shadow you sound like some weird bitch..

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        • mysistersshadow

          Hurt my feelings? What a ego no your just another random idiot in a long line of random idiots. Its not a insult to be called weird you asshat you go ahead and be normal and boring it seems like your already good at the boring part. LOL.

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          • Rayden1991

            Ok what ever you say lmao

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            • mysistersshadow

              Now your getting it... Whatever I say. Lets see if your fragile little ego can keep from responding. I have money on this so don't disappoint me.

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  • MichaelMyersindarkness

    *walks knife in hand*

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    • RoseIsabella

      *leaves a pumpkin nearby*

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      • Roustabout

        *smashes pumpkin, runs away giggling*

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        • RoseIsabella

          *frowns*

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  • Stryk3istrukuout

    You just want a big black cock, and want to say it in a way that doesn't make you the slut that you are.

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  • bittermayonnaise

    Let me guess, your a Hot Eskimo Babe.

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    • lemon

      I don't understand what you mean but it's not about what I look like. For the record, I'm not pretty. Does that alter your perception or confirm your stereotype?

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      • bittermayonnaise

        I just know Hot Eskimo Babes love worshipping my big white cock, it's like sugar to them.

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  • Tealights

    Basically, you're curious about dating black men, but you're in denial about it. For goodness sake, just date one black guy, and get it out your system so you don't obsess about it.

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