I'm very attracted to my teacher(s)?

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I'm a teenage girl, and over the past few months I've felt myself begin to like older men. It was never a problem because I know why. I value their maturity and looks, there's no daddy issues here. But anyways. This year in school I've found myself attracted to THREE of my teachers (all male). One is my math teacher, one is my science teacher, and the other my English teacher. It started with my English teacher because he's only 27 and we have a ton in common. And he's SUPER cute. The next one was my science teacher. This was a slow fall because I value his personality and humor more than his looks. The last one is my math teacher, and I love his body. His very athletic and strong, which is something that I can't help being attracted to. SOMEONE PLEASE EXPLAIN THIS. I have a fantastic relationship with my dad but I feel this way about a lot of older men. Is it normal to be attracted to my teachers? It doesn't part me from my school work or anything but wow it's a bit distracting. I flirt with a few of them and they don't seem to be disinterested. Although I won't ever go as far as to have sex with them (that would be bad), i'm still concerned for myself and my well being to be honest. Help?

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  • Diver2
    8 years ago

    Suck your teachers off.

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  • RB190
    8 years ago

    Though this may be hard to hear, but you can't continue like this.

    You have settle for 1 of them, choose a teacher and pursue him, the best thing for you to do now, would be to find out the one you like by spending more time with them to get to know them better, make a list of their pros and cons and choose the most worthy one.

    wait till you're 18 to formalize the relationship. Otherwise carry on like before.

    your reaction is normal.

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  • JD777
    8 years ago

    Totally normal. Attraction and fantasy is healthy. Acting on it can be disastrous for you and especially him.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    You do realize that you are but one of MANY like yourself, don't you? All the little girls get crushes on their teachers. He doesn't want your attentions or affections and he's only being nice to you to keep you from being the 'girl spurned'. I'm sure he can't wait until you are gone.
    Stop lying to yourself; you two have nothing in common, except you are in a classroom with 30+ others at the same time.

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    • ayyjude
      8 years ago

      1. Rude
      And 2. I think I can tell when someone doesn't like me...he's a nice person. I never said I was the only one lmao read the message please.

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      • daydreamer394
        8 years ago

        He's a prick, isn't he? He is a spiteful washed-up "sailor" who patronises needlessly to feel better about himself, not realising that it makes him pathetic, as we can see. It's clear you were merely asking a question; don't mind him.

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      • thegypsysailor
        8 years ago

        Try searching this on here.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    It's totally normal to feel attraction. It's only if you act on it in your circumstances you'll create a shitload of problems because you're under age. By flirting with your teachers you are pushing those boundaries a bit.

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