I'm twenty years old and never had a girlfriend
Hi
I just turned twenty and have never had a girlfriend. It could possibly be caused by my shyness; i don't really approach women in, say, bars or clubs. It's sort of became that thing where, as time goes on, I just get more and more scared of the idea of rejection and humiliation (heavily influenced by paranoia and severe self conscious).
I just don't want it to get any worse as i really want someone to be with. And i'm not even talking about sex (even though i am a virgin). I just want someone i can love and share common interests, to hold and cherish and spoil.
It just seems like these wishes are slipping through my fingers as I grow older and my confidence plummets.
Is it normal to feel this way and if so how do I get out of the hole I seem to be digging