I'm starting to lose all my confidence in myself.

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I don't know what to do.. i'm having problems meeting new people nowadays, for example i do something stupid or say something weird and they think i'm not cool or anything. I'm always thinking that they're right for thinking it and how i could've fixed it and i was wrong. And i'm having this feeling in my stomach when i say or do something stupid. please help, i need to build my confidence again, and all these sites on google aren't really helping, i need real advice.

i have friends and all but i feel like i'm starting to lose them one by one due to this.

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  • kellstar
    13 years ago

    My advice would be, think before you speak and act and be yourself. If they don't like you for who you are then they arnt worth your time.

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  • ShaylaMinx
    13 years ago

    I think we all feel that way.
    Just some are more open with it then others. You just notice things differently. You see things on a higher level. At least that is what I see.

    As for friends. Ive had them come and go through my life. A lot of them good. Each one had their purpose. So just smile. The people that matter will see you and accept you. Why? Because you accept them as they are.
    ^.^

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  • Tenorsax69er
    13 years ago

    I'm going to guess that you're just recent out of highschool/collage. Either way, I know what you mean. I'm in a bit of the same situation myself. I find all my friends are not caring anymore. I think it has to do with everyone going down their own path and are just changing/evolving themselves. It's totally normal. I agree with kellstar that you should think before you speak. Do YOU think that they think you're not cool? Or did they say to you "you're not cool". I think in your situation you need to remember that they're hanging around you cause they like you. If they don't like you they won't be around. :) Cheer up.

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