I'm so conceited.

I was in a club recently and the most gorgeous leggy blonde walked in. I said to my friend, "Look at that gorgeous girl." Do you know what she replied, "I bet you any amount of money you like, she leaves here alone!" Eh?

My friend was right, which stunned me coz it was a nightclub with 10 men to each girl. So I asked her how she knew - she said she reeked of desperation and men could smell it, like dogs. The last thing any of them wanted was some clingy girl when all they wanted was a one night stand.

Go out, laugh all night - without checking your make up once and you will be surrounded by men!
Works for me, and I'm not beautiful.

Hm...Well, try actually pointing out your flaws. Think, 'If I can't be modest, that's a flaw in me.' There ya go. You aren't perfect. That's the first step, admitting. ;) Then find friends that may not be as physically attractive as you but have better personalities. I always surround myself with these kind of friends. They make me feel better about myself and improve my personality in the meantime. [: A guy will come along that likes your personality as much as your looks. NEVER date a guy solely for his looks or money and never let a guy date you for your's!

You are fixating too much on "snagging a man" instead of leading your own life and naturally attracting them to you. Also, I found that being attractive, people assume you are already in a relationship. Just go out and get laid and have fun, my fiance fell in love with me because I didn't care about "being with someone" constantly like many young women tend to do.

Why do you feel bad about wanting to be happy? normal

maybe try being more outgoing. or maybe you dont like anyone so youre not willing to go for someone? and it kind of sounds like you want others to feel the way you feel about yourself or tell you that they think youre pretty but they probably think you already know so they wont tell you. whatever the reason you will find someone someday, be patient; love will find its way

That doesn't sound like excessive pride, although the bf thing may be if what you are saying is that it doesn't make you look good.

I think its fine to have self-confidence as long as you don't go around being a bitch to everyone and being a snob. As for your boy problem, you just have to wait for the perfect guy. I know that sounds horrible but its really all you can do. If your a good looking girl then the wait shouldn't be very long

Okay, people love others for who they are. Otherwise, the relationships won't last. It seems to me that you are yet to find the one that you can talk to. Be patient. Be tolerant of others, that way people will see you as more approachable. Don't worry about it too much, it's not that important.