I'm scared to date women because of my fetish

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Basically, I'm a guy who's into all kinds of sexual play involving pee (giving and receiving), and I'd like to find a woman who would be up for being my watersports babe. My dilemma is that for this very reason I have double the fear of rejection of most guys on the dating scene...

Is it normal that I'm shit scared of approaching women in the first place, due to having an immense fear of what her reaction might be when I tell her I would like to use pee as a kind of "prop" during foreplay?

Like, I know you don't mention sexual stuff when you've just met, but at some point I'd need to let her know what she was getting into with me because pee is pretty much essential for me during sex, so if I don't tell her, I won't be satisfied fully, which will depress the living shit out of me, but if I tell her and she gets really freaked out by it and runs a fucking mile, that will also depress the living shit out of me.

Sensible answers only please. None of this "ewww gross" shit people say. Kink shaming isn't cool.

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  • Darkknight
    5 years ago

    If I were you I'd try one of those fetish dateing sites or go on a watersports type site and start chatting with a member with similar interests in your general location. At least you would be on a site with other people that are into this.

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    • CDmale4fem
      5 years ago

      Alt.com or fetlife.com

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  • Alichael
    5 years ago

    Ask her if she's a fetish girl before you disclose anything about yourself. If she says she isn't, you'll know that she's not the one before you have to tell her what you're into and worry about being rejected.

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  • ThickKitty
    5 years ago

    Would love to know more...

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Is that a sarcastic comment implying that i've already said too much, or a genuine request for me to go into extra detail? I can't tell.

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      • ThickKitty
        5 years ago

        Not sarcastic at all! I love pee is all and wanted to know more

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          5 years ago

          I want to be in a relationship with a woman who will pee on my cock, let me pee on her clit, and fuck me in the puddle without washing in between.

          Is this you?

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