I'm obsessed with my neighbor's daughter

I am a grown man who is obsessed with my neighbor's daughter. She flirts with me all the time; constantly asking me if she has a nice body, if her butt is too big or if her breasts too small. I admit I love the attention she affords me, but as of late, I may have crossed the line. We have no fence dividing our homes, and last month I walked over to her bathroom window to see her. It's become a rather ritualistic habit now, and I can't stop thinking about her, even during the work day. I let her hang around the house and bought a Play Station 3 so she would come over more frequently. I'm beginning to think about paying her to do random tasks around the house just to spend more time near her. Please tell me this is normal...

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Comments ( 43 )
  • You are becoming a peeping Tom - developing sexual issues & boundary problems. She likes to tease you. She's just a horny teenager. Get a grip. Take a shower. Get a girlfriend your own age.

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  • knowledgebytes

    Not pedophilia unless she's a young child. Teenagers are maturing sexually even faster now than in the past so chances are she reminds you of girls who were older when you were in school. So the desire and the enjoyment of the flirting are all normal.... Especially if she's hot!

    BUT - actively pursuing her is another thing entirely. Peeping in her bathroom? Enticing her to visit? Intentionally creating situations to be around her? These are all crossing the line and are recipes for disaster. How do you think it's going to play out? She'll spend more and more time with you until when???? When she decides to quit? Or when the whole thing blows up in your face?

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  • tarl_cabot_of_port_karr

    if shes asking about her boobs and butt, i doubt shes under 13 people.

    anyway its completly natural to be attracted to girls that flirt in the manner described. you aren't crossing any lines that im aware of, and she appears to be capable of making her own descions.

    the parents will always be an issue.

    when things boil down ask yourself: is it worth it?

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  • joanna22

    sounds to me she's about 15-16 and you sound like you're over 30. I used to like to flirt with older men when I was a teenager but it definitely would've freaked me out if I ever caught any of them watching me take a shower, that in it self is a crime, so don't get yourself in trouble with the law. she only likes the attention and you're giving it to her but you might end up giving her more than she can handle and it might end up freaking her out and she could report you. so instead of paying her to keep her around your house use that money to take out a woman closer to you in age on a date. this whole thing is just some sort of obssessive fantasy that will result with your name on the meagan's law website. STAY AWAY!!!

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  • hero16

    Don't worry the country jails always have a free cell waiting for the kinds of you if u don't have where to go they have a free room and some warm meal at their disposal

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  • Hiljaisen_susi

    Reguardless of her age, this is an obsession and, as such, is unhealthy.

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  • Pinger

    We need to know the age. Any younger than 18 and it's wrong buddy. Its most guy's fantasy, but life sucks and unless you're dreaming, its never going to happen..

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  • sepia

    This is weird, disgusting, and WRONG. Hell no it isn't normal u sicko...can u seriously not c tht ur becoming a pedophile...well technically u alrdy r, b/c the stalking has occurred...peeking thru her window!?!?. Pathetic perv, get a life tht doesn't involve stalking young girls u jackass!!!!

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    • arrix

      He never said how old she was, jackass. And the definition of true pedophilia is someone who is attracted to pre-pubescent girls, not ones who have hit puberty. Under 18 is legally wrong, but morally, its going to vary from person to person, Thats just how the world is. But seriously, look it up. Pedophilia = sexual attraction to PRE-PUBESCENT girls. Being under 18 doesnt make someone a "child" just because its the legal definition. Some countries have 16 as the age of consent, some its 14, some its actually 13!!!!! So to them, the legal definition of a "child" is different. But you're one of those knee-jerk people who sees everything in black and white and reacts in the way that society has conditioned them to. Again, research pedophilia and what it actually is..... and while you're at it, check out some sociology and find out where cultural norms and values actually come from, because thats what you're basing your hysterical reaction on.

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    • MarcusP.

      He's here as a warning sign to catch himself before he makes a mistake. Be easy on him.

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  • Isthisit

    Can you spell JAIL and SOCIAL RUIN. Man half this world is female. Find someone legal. Chances are this little cutie pie will wind up fat, wrinkled and ugly the way most of us do.

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    • Something_Recognizable.

      Ha Ha, No. Only a quarter of the world is female.

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  • joelsmo

    You forgot to mention how old? It sounds like you have jail in your future. You are suppose to be the adult here, get a grip. Peeping tom, sex with minors, wow you don't think there is something wrong here? Maybe when the father blasts your head off with a shotgun you will realize how stupid you are. Keep it a fantasy and just go play with yourself before you end up in a bad way

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  • Are you willing to accept the consequences of what may occur if this continues? That is all that matters.

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  • Saccharine_Zombie

    Shes not worth it and obsessions are unhealty regardless.

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  • cunnilinguist92

    HAHA well havent you been a bad boy
    let me ask you something are you married?

    if so then keep it in your pants

    if not....look but dont touch hahahaha

    regardless of age....

    almost like a fantasy you cant touch it :)

    J.A.S

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  • Chonga

    You belong in jail you dirty fuck...much hate

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  • cogentd84

    Please tell ME that you aren't a pedophile and that she's at least 18.

    And I'll confirm that you have crossed the line, if this is indeed a legit story.

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    • EyeOfTheStorm

      lol i was thinking the same

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  • russellnb

    Sounds great to me. Just be careful what you pay her to do.

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  • secretguy25

    your ppl are all stupid god get a life people give the guy a break. its not his fault that the slutt keeps on seducting him by asking him how her ass and boobs look its the slut that teases him and provokes him to do the stalking or else that girl would not ask him private sexual flirting stuff.

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    • MarcusP.

      It is his fault for letting it happen to the point of messing with his clear right/wrong choices though. I do agree they are normal and they may not be sexual in nature but they are still not appropriate for a older man to be like this over his teenage neighbor. He just needs to back off and keep his right and wrong boundaries up

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  • testingthis

    just fuck that young pussy in the shower dude

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  • Alice97

    It's normal, as in easy for any guy to do, but not healthy.

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  • Himysweetlove

    yes, to a certain point. Your a man wiht hormones anda working dick, and wiht the way she is talkign to you i seems like she want you attention. So give it to her but do not cross a line so dont touch her inappropiatly or anyhting. But you should talk to her tell her that what she does is worng and that if you break the temptaion you can get in serious triouble. But most teens know that so yeah. Its cool but dont do anything.

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  • Avant-Garde

    How old is she? Is she the legal age of your country? If she's of age, why don't you try dating her?

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  • Something_Recognizable.

    Stop and get help. Not saying its gross or anything but, Obsessions are unhealthy.

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  • familyguy63

    my exs daughter was the same,!

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  • Tinman2006

    My best friends daughter did the same thing to me come in naked say thing one night we were on the couch watching tv she put her feet in my lap and started rubbing my dick with them and I gave he fine little ass a proper pussy licking toe sucking the fucked her till morning she still wants me to make her feel good when I'm in town and she's married now so we Sneek off and play

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  • Doggie_Helen

    If she's hinder 28 stop talking yo her or you'll get ruined... if sirs over 18 try it on and suggest sex. If no... it's over ... if yes... great fun for you

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  • GirlsNeedMe

    I dated a 18 year old when I was 30, when I was 19 I was banging the sexiest girl of my life, she barely 16. I get hard to this day describing her, u see she was illegals, and your damn right he did too.!!!! I hear ya man, so hard to walk away from that perfect, sexy, right teenage body, but in the end it's not enough anyway, not yet:;(

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  • pappusharma

    It is just a carnival of lust...

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  • topper33

    so what are you going to do? and please be honest

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  • this is completely wrong. Also, i also have to agree with some of the comments,get the money that you were going to pay the slut, and use it to take out a woman of ur own age.

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  • dannyblizard

    dude this is kida creepy i mean how old is she?

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  • THATSWHATHESAID

    i hope you mean your older by 5 or 6 years or less evven :)

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  • redsoxguy18

    i have to agree with the age thing. and guys, its not considered pedophilia if the girl is over age 13. pedophilia is only when men have an interest in girls under 13. but if she's under 18, that's illegal. and watch what you do around her dad because you never know if he comes to your door with a shotgun. if that was my daughter i would've done that a long time ago.

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    • arrix

      lol i wrote my comment before I read yours, but you're exactly right. I pretty much said that same thing in mine. Glad someone in this world is still rational. And oh yeah.... YANKEES SUCK!!! :p

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  • saix

    i hate these sickos who insist a girl has to be at least 18! they have no dicks.

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  • MarcusP.

    Watch out there man. I'm 22, in college and my neighbors daughter is 9. Even though I'm cool with her parents and stuff. I don't feel comfortable with her in my apartment with the door closed. She is a nice girl but I recognize its not appropriate for her n me to talk about certain topics or be in my place with the door closed...stuff like that or night time anything unless her parents need to go somewhere and need me to watch her. But I understand there is something about her that draws you to her but you at the end of the day need to be an adult and keep the situation right cause your the only one that will lose anything.

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  • freebee

    Fuck her real good have a great time fuck her 3/3/4 times then kill yourself cus sure as he'll man her farther's gunna kill you anyway. Die happy

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  • boosh

    Disgusting

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  • maddyb7

    Well how old is the girl o and do go to far cause if she is under age you culd get cought and be aressted

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