I'm not sure if i touched his dick?

Ok so last night I was at a party making out with this guy I know from school and we were a little bit drunk so that helped a lot because we're both a little shy
He was enjoying it I could tell by his moaning and him kissing my neck and stuff but when I decided to touch his dick ( and I did this multiple times) i didnt feel it hard. Was it my fault for not doing it right or maybe I couldn't tell easily because of his jeans?
We didnt end up having sex because there were a lot of people in his house and he didn't have a car.

I'm starting to feel ashamed of myself cause I feel like i've done it wrong, what do u guys think?

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Comments ( 14 )
  • AbnormallyAwesome

    If he wasn't into it he would not have been doing what he was doing.

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  • walkingdildo

    I love seeing all the losers living out some sort of literary fantasy through your experience. How sad.

    The likelihood is that the alcohol was preventing his erection.

    It is well known amongst guys that no matter how much they are into it, after a couple of drinks they sometimes just cannot get it up, or keep it up, even if there is a smoking hot woman lying naked on the bed in front of them begging for a hard rogering.

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  • SockUnicorn92

    I agree. He was totally into it...maybe just nervous

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    • Kookulainamus

      He was too drunk to fuck. But he liked you hence all the kissing.

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  • freedom_of_sex

    Nothing is wrong here. Carry on :) You didn't do any wrong as he kissed you multiple times and you both were drunk :)

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  • DaddyLovesHisPussyYoungNHairy

    When guys are drunk sometimes they can't get a hard on

    some guys can't get hard cause of anxiety performance

    we fear that we can't satisfied a girl and some girls

    think it's their fault, just like my ex-girlfriend she

    didn't want me to cum in her hand so it placed pressure

    on me i would pre-cum but that was it i feel this way

    if a girl releases her vaginal fluids for me and or on me

    i would like if she would return the favor by allowing me

    to cum in her hand or on her breast.

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  • _Mehhhh_

    If he was wearing tight jeans, than can sometimes compress the erection down, although it would still feel hard

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  • IMissMary

    It happens sometimes that a guy might not get hard from kissing and foreplay.

    Most of the time I don't, but on rare occasions I have gotten raging hard ons just by being near someone I get vibes from. Like this chick at work.

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  • dick555

    Just unzip his pants next time and get a good hold of his cock. It is normal and exciting.

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  • Lovememore

    Itd normal. Next time take his cock out and lick it top to bottom. U will find the difference.

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  • bigfatdick4

    If his dick was flaccid, next time you should unzip him, take it out and start gently sucking on its head...that would soon get him hard as a rock!

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  • BEND_OVERR

    Men cant pop boners if they are drunk.
    FYI , its called a cock.
    A dick is an England cop.

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    • Legion

      A dick is also a private eye and a short name for a guy named "Richard"

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    • CreamPuffs

      A cock is a male chicken.

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