I'm not sure if i'm bi or not?

its not wrong. its normal. and if you are bisexual you will not be able to change that fact. you can choose not to act on your feelings however. but there is a whole world out there to explore and religion should not be the deciding factor on weather you experiemnt or not, but that is a whole other subject.
if you really think about it, like when you arent horny and you seriously could see yourself being with another woman, to love be with and just hang out romanticly- not even just sex than maybe you are bi.
if you only fantasize about this while masturbating or the occasional dream thats normal too, everyone has fantasys that they want to KEEP fantasy. you just have to ask yourself how far you would really be willing to go.

I think you know. I mean you fantasize about chicks. but dont get me wrong, im in the same boat as you, I am "straight" but have the same bisexual tendancies as you. the thing you have to come to terms with is your comfort level with the idea of being bi. I had trouble at first but after a while you just got to accept your feelings. and dont listen to those people who tell you to ignore it, its your thoughts you cant ignore those

first of all, its not wrong. you are who you are and you have to love yourself no matter what but just so you know lots of straight women enjoy fantasizing about other women and it doesnt always mean their bi or lesbian.

there's nothing wrong with being bi. just enjoy whoever your with, either guy or girl. don't worry about what people think. God and Jesus will love you anyways.

Most people, at some point, think about sex with a person of the same sex. Thinking about it, even doing it, doesn't necessarily mean that you're bi.
But even if you are, there is absolutely nothing wrong with it.

I think the bigger issue for you is whether you can find a way to reconcile your religious beliefs with the facts about who you may be, or whether you'll ultimately reject those beliefs.

Without wishing to offend those beliefs - it's worth remembering that the book of the Bible that says homosexuality (and, presumably, bisexuality) is wrong also says that eating prawns is wrong, going out in public while on your period is wrong, and after giving birth a woman has to make a burnt offering of a pigeon to a local priest.
I don't know many christians, but I'm pretty sure there aren't many who let those rules get in the way of their life.

First, there are many "versions" of Christianity, and some are open and affirming of all people, including all sexual orientations. So while your personal beliefs are important, your church's are not.

Second, you are what you are and will find peace in accepting that, not fighting it. If you have a bi-sex experience and like it, you will have doubled the number of potential future partners in your life - not a bad deal!

Good luck. Love yourself, as God loves you too.

Dont let religion guide your feelings.. Let your heart do that. Either way you choose is fine and normal, as long as you follow your heart. BTW i think its perfectly normal to fantasize about other women sometimes.. It doesnt necesarily mean your Bi.

uh don't listen to those morons that are telling you to try to stay straight. do what you enjoy doing, and you will soon figure out what you like, and whether you are for sure about how you feel about girls. Don't let some ignorant assholes tell you otherwise.

normal
im a guy and have the same problems!

"I'm a christian and I know that being attracted to the opposite sex is somewhat wrong..."

Where'd you come up with that? There is no mention in the bible about lesbians anywhere. You've got Romans 1:26-27, that if you drink heavily and look at it from an angle through dense fog you might find an obscure meaning (I don't) but other than that nothing.

Don't be influenced my misplaced and misunderstood inhibitions.

Gay, bi, or straight, you are of God's making. How could he not love something he created?!?!

Same with me, I'm Just Afriad To be Bi Because of My Dad, But Its Very Normal, Just Experiment

i nearly had a break down too lol. i started coming into my sexual life by watching lesbian porn, by accident, i kind of had just discovered youtube and stumbled upon it. i knew it was "wrong" that was what was taught to me, but i wanted to look at it and i would always get really wet and i started looking up what it menas and i then started having dreams about having sex with girls and not just a general thing, the dreams were veyr soecific and very graphic, dreamt of us rubbing our "yoohoos" together and it just got me sooo wet. but i don't think it makes anyone straight or gay to think about stuff liek that, i still like guys and women are beauitful and i don't think it is wrong to admire the human body even if it is a woman and your body will have sexual responses if you see somehting sexual and you cant help it. sexuality is sexuality and whether or not it is between a man and a woman or two women or two men, its still sex and their is still pleausre and that is what is a turn on, at least for me. to see that what the person is doing is giving them soo much pleasure. i think we are all people and we should just enjoy each other. woman or man.

Nothing is wrong or right, only thinking makes it so.

being bi-sexual is completely natural, btw if you think about having sex with other girls and enjoy it that makes u bi.

you cant really force yourself to be something your not ya know, i know your christian and all but your religion cant change your feelings, do wat u feel is right.

Do what you want.
I feel the same way but only think about seriously being with one girl in particular lol if that makes me bi, then so be it :]

im in the same situation, whenever i am masturbating i think of girls not boys but im straight.. i think.
i like boys and i dont think ill ever have a relationship with girls cause i cant picture myslef kissing a girl but i dream about kissing them and stuff.
this is normal. i think. and im gonna try to stop thinking about girls like that and i think because of your religion you should too..

Honestly if you *think* you've liked boys all your life, then suddenly start liking girls, you might be bisexual, but heteroromantic. It's completely fine to be bisexual, with that romantic orientation.

me to i have the same situation i just dont have sex with girls

It is when you get older and start becoming ready for "Activity" that your real feelings will come out towards sexes. I guess you may be attracted to both which is very understandable. You may be bi or hey you may decide to try it out and it may not be for you, it is normal.

Do you think about this after masturbating? If not than you're not a lesbian