I'm not happy until i ruin everything

whenever i get into a relationship i look for my way out first if i don't see a possible reason for us to eventually break up, like hes moving in a month or im graduating at the end of the sem etc.. i avoid the relationship. or i pick fights and keep distance between us. is it normal i cant keep a relationship going even if its good?

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Based on 67 votes (18 yes)
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  • SassyFrassyLassie_old

    Are you sure that ruining relationships makes you truly happy?
    Maybe you should stay away from relationships until you really want one and are willing to fight to keep it going - otherwise, what's the point; you're just messing with other people's feelings (which is a bit cruel).

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  • happywheels

    You're a selfish person

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  • Neapolitana

    Sounds like you're not ready for a relationship:)

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  • nicko43

    your just got a fear of commitment talk with them about it if you love them

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  • MissOpheliac

    love yourself first before trying to love others

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  • b454

    Thats just bogus. Why bother starting a relationship if you just want to mess with someones emotions?? That's not cool

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  • DannyKanes

    Lol, you're just an emo

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  • I_am_not_normal

    If somethings too good, it's sometimes hard to accept. But why are you making relationships, knowing that you're just going to end them? Try to find someone with one or two things you hate about them to balance it out, so it's not "too perfect"

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