I'm not gay but i hate women.

Bad marriage, painful divorce. Fast foward to the here and now. I enjoy sexually degrading women. I'll spare the details, but let's just say it involves bodily fluids (mine). I've carried this grudge against women for several years. Been to many shrinks. Can't shake it. Is it normal for a hetero guy to hate all women like this? Are there other guys (straight guys) who despise women like I do?

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  • RoseIsabella

    You would do well to take a break from dating entirely, and work through your painful issues from past relationships. You won't be able to have a happy and healthy relationship until you work through your previous issues. You should also get screened for a possible mood and or personality disorder. Sadly many people do go to therapy for years without much progress for lack of a proper diagnosis and seeing the wrong therapist. If you don't have a rapport with a therapist then look for another one. If the therapist is just listening to you complain and not challenging you then it's not gonna help you much. Cognitive behavioral therapy can really help especially if you have the proper diagnosis.

    I certainly don't endorse your stupid degradation fetish or anyone's for that matter. I do in fact appreciate your honest and candid post. Lots of people seem to be fans of BDSM these days, but honestly it's probably much more of a red flag that there's something wrong. I'm sorry you had a bad marriage and a painful divorce, but hating women in general isn't going to bring you any real peace or happiness. There are plenty of men and women who hate the opposite sex, because of bad experiences in their pasts, but that hatred doesn't get them anywhere. Additionally this degradation bullshit will only escalate, and may very well land you behind bars. Normal healthy people will not be attracted to you, because normal healthy people won't care to be degraded by you urinating and defeating on them. Basically the only women who will be interested in you will really messed up women who are probably just as damaged as you are, but just in a different way.

    If you want to improve your life stop acting out with women, start attending a program for sex addiction, get back into therapy get a proper diagnosis and do not use drugs or alcohol! It's your choice to improve your life or get worse, because the only way out of it is through it.

    P.S. Gay men don't typically hate women, they're just attracted to other men instead of women.

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    • Ellenna

      Great response RoseIsabella: I hope OP follows your advice

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      • RoseIsabella

        Thanks for your support Ellenna.
        ;-)
        I guess the ball's in his court now.

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    • IMissMary

      Women created this man.

      You can thank your sisters

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      • RoseIsabella

        I'm not responsible for how other members of my gender act, and I certainly don't hold the average guy responsible for the actions of the rest of his general either.

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        • IMissMary

          Of course, a woman not wanting to take responsibility is no surprise.

          You give advice to other women and men on this site...YET you as a WOMAN refuse to take responsibility to what happens IF someone follows your advice.

          Typical female

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          • RoseIsabella

            *lights a torch*
            :-/
            Okay, back under the bridge!

            I'm not responsible for other members of my gender just as you aren't responsible for other members of yours. Now stop wasting my time with your obvious stupidity! Bugger off!!! Shoo!

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  • KabarKen

    You got problems. Glad they're not mine.

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  • Eat.My.Fuck

    This site has degenerated into such a retarded fucked up space. What the fuck is wrong with you people?

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    • This from a guy who uses the name: Eat.My.Fuck? Eat my cock you moronic ass wipe. :)

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      • Eat.My.Fuck

        I used to be bucho's_butt and then my account got deleted for no reason. So EAT MY FUCK. Get it? The people on this site are a bunch of fucking assholes and they can go fuck themselves. Ferocious aren't I? You guys are lucky you didn't create another incessant troll, but I have better things to do.

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  • thedog

    You ever seen Pink Floyd's the Wall?

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      ive been in a cave with several speciesa furry animals

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  • Ellenna

    Both balls actually: pity about his brain

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  • thegypsysailor

    Damn, it must suck to be you!

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    • thegypsysailоr

      I have a tiny penis

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      • thegypsysailor

        Funny, me too.

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        • thegypsysailоr

          Of course, because you're me, and I'm you :)

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          • thegypsysailor

            You only wish you could be the man I am. Silly deluded clone.

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  • Thorolf

    It's not normal at all, yes there are some bad females but there are also bad males. Don't be so sexist.

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  • Myghoul2099

    i'm not gay either,but i can see where you're coming from being sick of women. everything's been said a trillion times so there's no point debating, girls are just silly, accept them as they are.

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  • IMissMary

    Normal.

    Women have fucced over men for generations, especially in the modern era. The legal system has given women the tools needed to carry out revenge to emotionally and financially ruin men. I some cases driving men to commit acts of violence and more.

    Couple this with the disturbing trend in women and society covertly hating men and empowering women, would give any man cause to feel resentful. Truth be told, many of the 'gay' youth today are from single mothers turning their males sons gay just out of spite and hatred towards the fathers and men in general.

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    • theringer

      Good point. RoseIsabella had me going there with her truly excellent reply post, but you have given me some food for thought. Women whine and cry all the time about domestic violence when more often then not they themselves are the primary reason behind it. In other words, shut the fuck up, bitch or you are going to be sorry. Call the cops all you want. That's not going to save your sorry lying ass fron getting your face busted open!

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      • RoseIsabella

        Women are not the only victims/survivors of domestic abuse of course. I've known men who were in abusive relationships as well as women, and I've also known a couple of women who were the perpetrators of domestic violence. Regardless of the abuser's sex or gender and despite any hurtful words from the victim or potential victim said potential abuser has the obligation to remove him or herself from the situation and ultimately the relationship.

        There are people who enrage me to the point that I just want to decimate them, but I choose to stay away from those people, because the crazy drama a friendship or romantic relationship with such persons would produce is of course not worth my sanity or freedom. If someone says things to me that hurt my feelings or anger me to the point that I feel the urge to strike that person then there's no point in remaining in a relationship or friendship with that person, as I don't care to go to jail just because someone's words left me feeling booty hurt. Can words upset us all emotionally? Of course words can hurt. Yes, there are such a things as emotional abuse and or verbal abuse. I happen to believe that we all owe it to ourselves to not remain in unhealthy relationships.

        A funny thing I want to mention is that the first two abusive people who said to me, "what did he/she do to deserve being hit" or "they (the victim)made me do it", we're in fact women. Yanno what I told those two people separately, and on two different ocassions? I said, "if someone makes you feel so bad that you just want to hit him(her) then you shouldn't be with him(her) or around him(her) period, you're better off alone, stop being afraid of being lonely". There's nothing wrong with being alone, and I was alone for a very long time before I met my current beau; if it doesn't work out then I will be alone again. Sure, the single life may get lonely sometimes, maybe even most of the time, but it's not the end of the world, and being alone is better than wasting time and emotion with the wrong person.

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      • IMissMary

        Females from a very young age have been taught NOT to be responsible for their actions. When backed into the corner of responsibility women use their only weapon 'crying'. You can look at any circumstance in life as proof. Even the Law does not hold females responsible as male in their actions. Look at child rape for an example.

        Basically females have grown up thinking and believing they are natural victims to males in society and the law has backed them up all the way.

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        • Your words are unbelievably refreshing. Everything in this current society is geared towards denying women any sort of responsibility. Even in the workplace the average woman is under the delusion that getting her hair done and makeup is the primary responsibility of each day. What makes it even more mind boggling is this ridiculous idea of "equality". What would the average women who fully supports equality want? To be treated like a man? Show me a woman who wants to be treated like a man and I'll show you a closet dyke who probably deluded herself she got raped one time and now every man is going to pay.

          Even the legal system fully supports this nonsense, especially divorce court. There is no mercy on the common man there. Imagine going into a proceeding and seeing not only your soon to be ex-wife but her bulldog dyke attorney and look at this a female judge! I'm sure I'll get a fair hearing!

          This whole society has turned the traditional family unit into a joke. No wonder we have such substance abuse problems and overall dysfunction, these are the same people who grew up watching Dad expect mom to have some responsibility and, dare I say it, traditional gender roles. And what was Mom's answer. Time to call a lawyer.

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  • Past your bedtime old man, go the fuck to sleep.

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    • RoyRogers

      I guess if you are Muslim yeah.

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