I'm not gay, but

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I've had this conversation with numerous individuals and often get mixed results; I have stated before that although I have never been attracted to a male (I am male), on the occurrence that I do become attracted to one, I would have no problem pursuing something further. I don't necessarily feel that I am gay (for I have no burning desire to go for males, and as previously stated have never before been attracted to one) but if it were to happen, it seems stupid to ignore those feelings as a means to mask my masculinity. Is it normal to feel that although I am straight, if there comes a time where a male becomes attractive, I should follow through?

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  • xfg14
    8 years ago

    Yes, you are obligated to bone a man in the ass if you find him attractive.

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  • penisdump
    8 years ago

    It just means you don't have any hangups about your sexuality, or sexuality in general.
    Anybody who wouldn't do what you are saying ie. They're attracted to somebody but won't follow through because of gender, are ignoring their true sexuality because they don't want to be associated with it.

    Gypsysailor is implying that you're gay for even imagining the remote possibility that you might be attracted to a man one day. That's because he's so afraid of the possibility that he might be gay, he thinks even imagining it might make it true. I can understand, if you're that worried, why would you risk even thinking about it?
    But in your case it seems pretty simple "if you were attracted to someone, you would pursue them". Makes sense.

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    • MickeyMic
      8 years ago

      I am straight but I find some men attractive, I believe it's normal for straight men to find some men attractive.

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  • zigzigslaph
    8 years ago

    who wants to be my 3ds friend
    fc,2981-9424-3832
    nm. isaiah

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  • purplepaper123
    8 years ago

    I mean sexuality is a spectrum, so even if you aren't gay and you become attracted to a male that still wouldn't make you gay, it just wouldn't make you straight. Also, follow your feelings and your heart. Life is too short to be worried or suppressed.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    You're not gay yet, but.....

    Just a FYI, I hear the gay male community is desperate for more tops. Seems that everyone wants to be a bottom. So you might consider being a top if you ever decide to test the waters

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    I love it when a post begins with, "I'm not gay, but"....
    If you've never been attracted to a guy then why spend any time thinking about it? I think you pretty much let the cat out of the bag when you equated a loss of masculinity with homosexuality.
    Sorry dude, I don't think you are being very honest with yourself, or us.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    I'm not gay but.

    Fuck yes you are.

    GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      rip in peace

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      • Terence_the_viking
        8 years ago

        Rest in Peace in Peace?

        WHAT THE FUCK YOU ON ABOUT YOU STUPID MUTHA BITCHAR.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          8 years ago

          rip in pepperoni

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          • Terence_the_viking
            8 years ago

            You RIP in PEPPERONOI BITCH.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    8 years ago

    Maybe you're not simply gay but if you feel that you could pursue a man 'cause you like the look of his ass, and you still get turned on by women, you're probably bi-sexual.
    I don't think it's the norm for straight guys to think about having sex with other men. Possibly sheep but not other men.:-)

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  • wistfulmaiden
    8 years ago

    If it helps , don't give yourself a label.

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  • 12eahtsdrateri
    8 years ago

    go with the flow

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