I'm not attracted to gay men

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I am gay myself - I would consider myself "butch" even though I hate that word - more accurately I'd say I'm not femme at all, nor am I stereotypical or soft.
I've probably been on 40 dates in the last few years, and even though I get along with these guys often, I'm not emotionally attracted to men who show any signs of being gay / femme. I think I'll be single forever, because I'll never be able to be with a straight man. I also am not interested in anal sex at all! I am also not physically attracted to most men to begin with. Yes, I am certain I am gay. Anybody else have this issue?

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Do you like to gobble zee goo?

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  • Alquen
    14 years ago

    I thought I was the only one with that problem. The only guys I seem to find attractive are the straight ones.

    There are three main differences between us though, from what you posted:
    -I'm actually slightly bisexual (about 4 on the kinsey scale)
    -I do tend to act and think more feminine than masculine
    -I am interested in anal sex

    Considering how you say you aren't physically attracted to most men to begin with, have you considered that you might be asexual?

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  • znamz17
    14 years ago

    That's normal though. I hate annal sex too. But I am attracted to myself and other guys.

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