I'm just not into dating around or sleeping with ppl

I haven't been in a relationship in a years. I never really felt an actual connection with anyone, I was always the one who never had a boyfriend or dated much. I am not a virgin, but I don't have a lot of desire to have sex or be in relationships. I am a bit picky(not unrealistic) and I am not unattractive. I go out a good amount. I just had brain surgery last week and have spent many years being more concerned about health issues. But sometimes I feel like I'm going to be alone forever. It's not that I have totally given up on dating either. I just can not meet any guys my age (20) that a. want more than a one night stand of a sex friend or B. are d-bags, jerks or mean spirited which blows me away, why the hell would you take someone out, pay for a meal and be a dick to them.
I'm a little bit old fashioned. I just feel like theres no one out there for me. Even though the odds are in my favor.

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  • Yeah - you've just had bad luck & are pretty bummed out about it. But as you say, the odds are in your favour. You are quite young, attractive and seem to have good values. What's not to like.

    If these blues persist you may want to talk with your Dr.

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