I'm just curious about anyones bdsm experiences.

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People always told me its normal, but a lot of girls I've told have been kinda...weirded out by it. When I was with my ex, it took me a while for her to come around to the thought of me being her bitch.I admit, I do think I'm a bit weird. I'd want to be forced to swallow my own load by her. Strapon play. foot/ boot worship. Her stepping on my dick with her heels and rubbing her along my balls and dick. Chastity. Whipping, spanking, paddling, slapping, etc.

I told her I'd dominate her, but it doesnt really turn me on thinking about dominating her or being dominant.

Anyone have actual experiences to share to how they got their girl/boyfriend or wife/husband to try it? Did they like it?

I'm lucky my ex was open minded, but I'm scared if I tell my next girlfriend if I ever get one about all my BDSM fantasies, I'll scare her away. And I end up losing an amazing girl because of something that turns me on. But then we get serious, and I'm scared to tell her about my desires and end up being really unsatisfied sexually.

I prefer dominating. 31
I prefer being submissive. 69
I dont really like BDSM. 27
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  • _Cassandra_
    9 years ago

    I have never really been with a guy that is into it but I wouldn't mind it at all. I actually want a guy who helps me explore new things sexually, that is actually a plus. I am a girl and I like being submissive, being dominant would not be a turn on to me. You might want to tell her with baby steps. I would not tell her about swallowing your own cum and having her step on your dick on the first day.

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  • Squafdonoboles
    8 years ago

    My girlfriend invented a little game, where she likes to be tied to a bed naked and blindfolded. On the night table is a fish bowl with many folded up pieces of paper, and there's a box on the floor filled with objects. My job is to pick out a paper and do exactly what it says to her by using whatever object the paper states from the box. The fact that she is blindfolded gives her an exciting element of surprise.

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  • calleigh19
    9 years ago

    I am both a Domme and a Sub, I know to some that is weird but I have no problem dominating my fiancé as long as he returns the favor. You should never be ashamed of what and who you are. I actually find you very normal my friend

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  • Riddler
    9 years ago

    I am a Sadomasochist and prefer being Submissive. Anyone NOT into the lifestyle is going to think you are a freak, anyone into it might want to share or wont judge you. Cant judge when you are also into it yourself. It is normal but it doesn't mean some people are not totally creeped out by it. Long as its with other consenting Adults you are all good.

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  • Haddaway
    9 years ago

    what the f*** is love?!

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    • NiniCool
      9 years ago

      Babdy don't f***ing hurt me !
      Don't f***ing hurt me !
      No more... ♪

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    I personally prefer a good power dump to even thinking of that kinda bullshit.

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    • mlbryan44
      9 years ago

      Good comment, Now I know why I love you.

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      • RoseIsabella
        9 years ago

        Thanks.
        *paws up*
        ;-)

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  • ilovetoiletrolls
    9 years ago

    hate BDSM

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    • RoseIsabella
      9 years ago

      Me too!

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  • Jane77
    3 years ago

    I think you have to slowly let her know what you like or it will be no good for you and if she loves you will except it. As my husband did that and introduced dick slapping to me and I am now wanting to slap and punish it more then him, lol

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  • magic7
    6 years ago

    I believe in female domination and being submissive to women in the bedroom. I believe that women should call the shots for "their pleasure". Man exists for a women's pleasure in the bedroom.

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  • anaspie
    7 years ago

    So the place you should be looking for your next girlfriend is probably http://femdom.dating/

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  • MusicalGamer
    8 years ago

    I'm mostly into bondage, so I guess that would qualify as submissive.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago

    I get both strong domination and submissive urges...with the domination urges more common...but I would definitely submit to the right woman

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  • whattimeisit
    9 years ago

    nah, dude. LIke if she doesn't like that then leave her. You should be honest, don't hate what you like.

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  • KeddersPrincess
    9 years ago

    He died.

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