I'm incredibly short and weak, and i feel worthless.

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I need help guys. I'm a male turning 19 next month. I'm only 5'3, have a baby face, and I am the weakest person on the face of the earth. I only weigh about 100 pounds, and I can only bench about 90. I feel emasculated by everyone I know, male or female. I'm sure this is why I have never had a girlfriend. I'm a joke. Honestly, I feel like a worthless piece of shit. I've wanted to die multiple times. I think part of this problem was because my high school never had a legitimate P.E program, so I never even got to work out until I was in 11th grade. I never played any sports because I was always too short and weak to even stand a chance. I'm terrible at every physical activity I have ever attempted. I honestly don't think I have the potential to get stronger. I'm just now finishing my first semester of college, and I haven't tried to talk to any girls because I know I'm just a pathetic joke. I would get a gym membership, and I'm planning to soon, but I don't know where to start. I don't have any friends who can help me out. I feel like no matter how much I work out, I don't gain any strength, and I don't know how to fix this. I could probably get my ass kicked by a twelve year old, and if I don't find a way to get in shape or have someone help me soon I'm probably going to end up killing myself. Please help me or give me some advice before I lose all hope. I don't know if I should be in a special program, or if I should find a trainer, or if there is even hope for me, but I need to get physically stronger, because I don't think I'm going to grow more, and I know no female would ever want to date some weak pathetic excuse of a human like myself. That is probably why I got rejected by my best friend who I fell in love with, and why I'm almost instantly friendzoned by every girl I ever come in contact with. I'm sorry to sound so pathetic, but that is just how I feel when I think about this, and people always made fun of me for it. PLEASE HELP ME!!

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    Hey there's another guy on this site just like you.

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    • gummy_jr
      10 years ago

      Hahaha! I can't even think of what to say about this.

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    • ucipher8
      10 years ago

      lol

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  • lolol555
    10 years ago

    Hey, you don't sound pathetic to me. Not everyone's into big muscley guys, hell I prefer someone lean and not all that athletic.

    As for working out - you don't need a gym to start off. I used to be really unfit before so I just started doing my own thing at home: jumping, morning jogs, push ups, etc. So, if you want, you can start small. Maybe with a few push ups everyday, then increase how much you do at the speed you're comfortable with.

    Don't give up hope, with a bit of exercise, your muscle strength will definitely improve. Not to mention how gratifying and stress-reliving it is. Good luck!

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      A short person can get lots of muscles. Also look buff and husky. May not be tall but there are illusions to appear taller than you look. There's tricks my friend. Yes some short guys are stuck being skinny but some aren't. I'm 5'3, 21 but yet people have told me I look buff. I work out a lot to get like that. Plus I naturally have wide shoulders. That helps a lot. Online people thought I was 5'6 or 5'7 but I'm only 5'3. I have long legs and kind of a long neck. So that can give an illusion to look taller. Wide shoulders too.

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago

    I'm 5'3, 21 and wear lifts that make me 5'5 but sometimes I don't wear them. I don't care. I know I'm masculine and strong. My deep voice makes up for my height. I have a girlfriend soon to be fiancé. No she's not even fat. She's skinny and beautiful. She's 4'10 and doesn't give a shit about people who judge her for her height. So, no don't worry about it dude. You'll do fine. Just remember there's short guys out there even shorter than you. Don't sweat it. Geesh....

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  • januarycurse
    8 years ago

    attraction is not just physical.

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Yep but some guys who are short can appear taller.

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  • suckit99
    8 years ago

    You need to get your head out of your ass and stop feeling sorry for yourself...or is this a joke posting?

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      Fuck off

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  • lemoncity
    10 years ago

    I'm sure that in the future there's an adorable petite lady who's meant for you. And if you like anime you can cosplay a shota if you want to ^^. "It can also apply to postpubescent (adolescent or adult) characters with youthful neotenic features that would make them appear to be younger than they are."

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    • Zonfire80
      5 years ago

      What if he wants to feel older? Not a kid? This would not help at all. I'm pretty sure most guys don't want to look cute.

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