I'm in love with my wife's sister

i married my wife 26 years ago when I was 18 and she was 19.I have never slept with anyone else,but I have loved her sister with all of my heart for the same length of time.I can hardly stand to be close to her unless we are both drunk.Her husband makes a lot of money but hardly spends anytime with her.She goes on vacation with us which I love but that just makes me love her more.My wife likes to go to sleep around 9 pm ,and I stay up drinking with my sister in law until 1 or 2 am

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  • niicocofosho

    if you love her sister more than you love your wife. then you hsould get a divorce.

    sometimes people want what they cant have and once they get what they have its pplop boring.
    not what you truly wanted.

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    • saduJ18

      He din't say he loved her MORE. He only said he loves her.

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    • 4w04se

      totally agree..

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  • Maybe if you had her you wouldn't want her anymore and screwed the rest of your life.
    Maybe you would be happier than ever.
    Anyway, keep on drinking and you will eventually accidently die or something so you won't have to worry about all this.

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  • sexiscasual80

    what you gotta do is get them both drunk and get them to do a 3 way with you

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    • saduJ18

      That never works, they'll both get pissed.

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  • Brenda626

    i if someone told me they were in love with my sister i would be MUCH happier if they told me... and dont think for a second your wife doesnt know.... SHE DOES

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    • KINKYMOOD

      This is CORRECT ...
      ANYONE who CARES can see LOVE.
      A threesome or foursome is out of the question for that reason.
      Probably a SECRET ONE TIME FUCK would tell you lots.
      Trouble is that all of us guys really like STRANGE ... and one fuck would not be enough.

      Why not just kiss and pet for a while ... then slide downstairs and warm up her cunt and eat it out .. forget YOUR pleasure just tickle her clit. When (if) she cums ... that may be a good clue

      GOOD LUCK
      kinky mood

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  • wrestler

    You should just not get into her sister, try to get away from her... if you accidentely fuck your wifes sister then you are pretty much banged.

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    • saduJ18

      ...accidentally fuck?

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  • oskilover18

    Divorce your wife if you can't get over it, and NEVER do anything with her sister. That would be the worst crime of love in the world. If you do get divorced as sad as it is, you will be away from her sister and be able to move past it easier. And you'll eventually find someone to love just as much. And next time don't be an ass and marry someone you don't love with all your heart.

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  • fence

    well..im not sure if this is normal but it sure does happen alot in relationships(in love with sister/brother,etc)..im just suprised you havent done anything with the sister yet...do you fight temptation?

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    • aafan

      i have to fight the temptation everyday,i see my sister in law about 3 times per week and that makes it harder

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  • saix

    my wifes sis looks like a supermodel. i met her when she was 14. Omfg! when the wife was at work i would tickle and wrestle the sis every chance i would get (i knew she was loose with the guys). she flashed me her butt and i would give her birthday spankings on her birthday. sigh.... It was heaven until one day i exposed a boob and she told on me. it was worth it.

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  • joelsmo

    Listen very carefully, put your dick in your hand clothes your eyes and stroke away because that is where you had better keep this. Some things are best kept as a fantasy. It is common for guys to lust after women the spend time with but you are married so how about you try and work out what ever problems you are having with your wife. You are looking for excuses to make your move and there are none. If your fantasy comes true you destroy to marriage. The biggest odds are you make your move she tells her sister and you are kicked out. You need to talk to your wife and rekindle what you once had to want to marry her and forget about making this fantasy a reality

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    • saduJ18

      That's all correct, except that once again, He did NOT say he has any problem with his wife and doesn't love her. You can love two people equally. And yes, keep it a fantasy, dude. If you fuck her it'll wreck everything important to you.

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  • LittleLady17

    I think you may need just to take a step back and really think about both of your relationships with these two ladies, and think whom yo ulove more, and who truly loves you. It's very complicated, but you need to think it over.

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  • PiAnt

    It's perfectly normal, so stop worrying about it.

    Whether or not you act on it and any repercussions from your actions is a different matter, but, it's perfectly normal to love, or have intense feelings for, more than one person at a time. Particularly people who you are around for a long time.

    Between the lines, it seems like you're looking for someone to say it's ok to leave your current situation and have a go at something new with this other woman...

    Maybe it is and maybe it isn't. Weigh up what you have first, and what you would lose, and what damage you would cause.

    Maybe you would be happy with just loving her from afar. Who knows what might happen in the future?

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  • dandyLion

    make sure the sister feels the same for you before you do anything, otherwise you'll only be making your current wife, yourself and the sister unhappy, its a truangle that wont work

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  • Bola12

    YES YOU NEED TO CONVERT TO ISLAM! islam will not allow you in anyway to kill your sister inlaw's husband. islam would rather let you know you SHOULD NEVER be in privacy with your sister inlaw and that you cannot marry her while her sister, your wife, is still alive.

    The solution is that you avoid seeing her; most expecially half dressed. this is the call of ISLAM.

    Thanks

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  • creativesector

    I too am in the ame boat but resist myself the only thing is i console myself that they r both the same externally and internally no difference just the same so why taste the juice again, try a new one

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  • zenji

    Not sowing your wild oats side effect.

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  • Mr_MAXMAN

    DUDE U HAVE TO GET AWAY FROM UR SIS-IN-LAW! FOR REAL MAN IF U LOVE UR WIFE THEN U'LL DO WHAT'S RIGHT!.....

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  • bkdoubleu

    I wouldnt say you love her I would say you just want to make her squeal. i did the same thing in high school found out the sister wasnt better.

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  • 4w04se

    THAT CAN'T BE RIGHT!

    It's true betrayal

    Avoid seeing her.. just go out do something when she's in your house .. if you really love your wife

    What you're doing is really selfish. You please yourself by spending much time with your sister in law.. That ain't right.

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  • ricky

    you are laying here, its not possible that you booze with her too frequently & not done anything yet! dude have courage to tell the truth on this forum. nobody knows you here , only it will give us all some insight into another person's mind & life....thanks anyway for sharing...

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  • Refusor

    You love your wife but like a normal man, you need a "challenge" a impossible dream.

    Don't worry about it, I'm sure your never deceive your wife.

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  • saduJ18

    Ok, I had the same problem with my ex wife's sis. Never made a move, but we were close friends. After the divorce, we still talked, and she confided in me one day that she was in love with me. BONUS! So we had a short affair (she's married) and it was awesome. But short, as I said. Anyway, I suggest you keep this shit to yourself unless you get divorced for something else.

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  • cybad

    My gut feeling is that you are banging her regularly like she is your second wife. In the remote chance that you are not, she definately considers you gay.

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  • FunnyUSayThat

    I agree with Ricky. Spill the beans we don't know you.

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  • Go see a counsellor. Now. There is a lot that is wrong in all these relationships and you know it, including the boozing.

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  • lurvejazz

    You shouldn't do this... You are BETRAYING your wife,indirectly.How could you do this?
    If you love her, why marry your wife? It will be such a torture for your wife to have her husband who doesn't love her but her sister.
    And ITS NORMAL, for a man who is not devoted to his woman.

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  • Hmmaybe

    Convert to Islam, secretly kill your sister in law's husband and then marry her as your second wife.

    Just joking. Seriously you probably shouldn't tell anyone in this circumstance, there is a high likelihood that it will break up your family.

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  • dan_d8b_dbline

    I only have a girl friend that ive been dating 2 years but I have always had feelings for her younger sister who is a tiny bit less attractive but has better curves then my girlfriend. I feel like I should get them both so I have a little of everything lol

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