I'm in love with my stalker, is this normal?

I have a stalker, she lives in the female dorms(college), which happen to be very close to my rented apartment.

She is extremely beautiful, but she's extremely scary at the same time.

I found out that she had a crush on me in the 3rd month of my freshmen year. She was following me and had even sneaked into my flat once, I caught her staring at me in the middle of the night and screamed bloody murder! she was able to calm me down before running off into the night, I didn't call the cops as originally planned because she looked genuinely terrified and I didn't want to cause her problems.

after that she was never around and I thought that she had dropped out(we have the same classes), but she showed up in class a week later and was extremely shy around me, I found her very adorable and forgave the home invasion, we became friends after that, and I didn't really talk to her about her breaking in, in fact I forgot about it soon after.

I found out that she had resumed stalking me during sophomore year, but decided to ignore it, she also had started getting extremely possessive, even though she's the most pretty girl in class;

Even with all this, I thought I had fallen for her; before I found out that she had actually been stalking me the entire time, she had even broken in 5 times before I caught her apparently(she confessed), she also has been taking photos of me behind my back and antagonizing any girl who came close to me(a fellow classmate informed me of this.)
She has also apparently been stalking me on Facebook(even though I haven't ever logged on ironically, she's been chasing down girls who post anything on my wall, and threatening them)

After I found out about all this she cornered me on the way home and confessed her love for me along with a lengthy heartfelt apology filled with sobbing and clutching me. I was too stunned to know what to do after all this, and before I had a chance to give a coherent reply she kissed me, In a daze I said "yes" to her request of becoming her boyfriend, I didn't realize what had happened until after it was over.

I really do think I might love her, and she's extremely gorgeous. but I'm not sure if I should; my friends used tell me to keep my distance, and I don't want to end up marrying a crazy person, I'm scared she may kill someone.

but they(my friends) haven't been overtly against 'Us' lately, so I think they've come to accept her.

she was also my 1st kiss, so I feel bound to her of sorts.

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  • chole

    Make sure you don't knock her up.

    There would be no leaving her.

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    • shuggy-chan

      Dude i bet she will be poking holes in all the condoms

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      • chole

        Microscopic holes with surgical equipment.

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    • JM220

      I disagree, You should totally make out with her, girls who care this much are rare.

      I would suggest working on her insecurities though, you don't want to find a corpse in your closet, even though she may never hurt you personally.

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  • charli.m

    You think you love her, based on what? It doesn't sound like you've ever gotten to know her.

    Two crazies together...Hmmmm...

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  • Holzman_67

    you just like the attention man

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

    funny how if yall did this shit as a feller yalld be worse than hitler and standin tall infronta the judge but shes a cute chick so its ok

    hell with that psycho cut git a restrainin order and make the fuck sure it gits enforced

    grow some balls and say fuckin NO and git the fuck away from me you daffy twat

    no good can come from yall gittin with this one

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  • Aries

    you have never even been kissed before and if she is as beautiful as you claim she is .. the combination is probably all that has caused these feelings . I think you should stay away from her and wait it out for a normal one buddy .

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  • your story sounds like high heels on wet pavement click clacking to meet a man with red roses

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    • Thanks?

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      • Riddler

        <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D5FCAl8cSP4" rel="nofollow">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D5FCAl8cSP4</a>
        They have a song for this!
        People are going to think something is totally wrong with me for saying this but thats so adorable! Marry her! Marry her before she decides to stalk someone else. I had lots of stalkers but they were never this cute! Its a WIN! Go for it!

        yandere
        Contrary to the popular belief that it is the opposite of tsundere, it describes an anime character who is either psychotic or violent or both, and shows affection to the main character. Became a popular moe genre after the airing of the last episode of School Days. Other yandere characters include Ryuuguu Rena from Higurashi No Naku Koro Ni series.

        I am so jelly.
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ijhilgbRtuM
        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-6G6tGHbSqQ

        Yuno is a Yandare, which is basically the ideal version of a stalker.

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        • Thanks, Liked the videos =D

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      • peterr

        Have you tried oral sex?

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  • kelili

    That sounds like Charlie and Rose in One and Half Man. Charlie ended under a train in Paris. :/

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    • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk

      mebbe he were just tryin to lose latrack?

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  • R19

    Dude, the reason I think your friends have stopped "overtly opposing" your relationship is probably because your "girlfriend" held a gun to their head or something.

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    • iEatZombies_

      Either that or they are starting to question his own sanity for dating someone who stalked him.

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  • kariann789

    There is a mental disorder that describes what you are going through.....i believe it's called Stockholm. Personal opinion, go to your local police department, school administrators and counselors about all of this. Yes everyone is crazy in their own way, but that's too much crazy for your own safety.

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    • chained_rage

      Stockholm Syndrome would actually only be when you fall in love with your kidnapper or somebody who forced you to live somewhere, presumably within their immediate residency.

      I don't think the OP has that.. I think that the OP is just a crazy person who likes getting attention :)

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      • kariann789

        Yeah you have a good point

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  • Alyss

    Christ, and I thought I was bad sending a boy two texts in a row..

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  • iEatZombies_

    I don't think there's a thing in the world I could say that would make you reconsider dating this girl. If her actions don't convince you to stay away, then nothing will.
    The only thing I can say is that this will end very, very bad -for you-. She will make you fear for your life. She might even kill you.
    Your friends will get away from you both, because they will grow to look at you the same way they look at her, which is as a danger. So your friends will be fine, don't worry.

    I should explain it to you this way. This girl is incredibly confused with her own emotions. She is unstable and she doesn't know how to deal with this confusion, so she directs her anger at your friends.
    Your friends will run off, leaving you to deal with your own shit. Once that happens, she won't have your friends to direct this energy towards. She won't have anybody but you. She'll still feel all of this anger and confusion, but now the thing she thought was bothering her is is gone and she still feels the same.
    This will obviously make her more confused. Therefore, you become the target of her emotions. Positive and negative both. Which is going to be about as confusing as she can handle before she explodes and destroys everything in her path--- which is only you.

    If you still want to date her after this, please at least tell her you will only date her if she gets real help.

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  • RoseIsabella

    If you think you're in love with that kinda crazy your mind ain't right, boy. How much you gonna like this creepy psycho-bitch when she breaks in your car and poops on the floorboard of the driver's side backseat to mark her territory? She's probably broken in your car, masturbated inside it and gone on joyrides while she was busy breaking and entering you're residence. If anything you should be terrified.

    Hopefully the cadaver dogs will find your body before the crows get to it. I'll pray for you, cause Lord knows you're in danger, child!

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  • thegypsysailor

    Sounds like you are both nut jobs and would make the perfect couple....for a murder/suicide scenario.

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  • regisphilbin

    you should contact authorities.

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  • farkelu

    Run VERY fast the other way, dude - right to a shrink so you can work out your own insanity!

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  • green_boogers

    Eventually her possessiveness will inhibit and destroy you. She be angry about it probably kill you to avoid losing control.

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  • KeepsakeDoll

    Tips on surviving a yandere's love:

    NEVER EVER cheat.
    Give her heaps of attention.
    Sex her up when she becomes insecure.

    She'll probably kill you or someone else if you mess up.
    Other than that do what you want if you like her.

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    • What is a yandere?

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      • Murun

        Are you on the internet? Things can easily be found on there.
        http://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/yandere

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  • RB190

    You remind me of that hero from the future diary anime.
    the one where they kill each other and he has a crazy stalker girlfriend(Yuno Gasai) like you do.

    If you don't know what I'm talking about, check out the anime. I'm sure the protagonist is in a similar situation, just do what he did.

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