I'm in love with my girl best friend & i'm a girl :/

73% Normal
11 Comments

Okay. My best friend's name is ______
I'm in love with her. I don't know why.
But i sucks because she has a boyfriend name ___
He's a total douche and doesn't even treat her right. Constantly flirts with other girls. She knows this but claims that he loves her. She has no idea how much i love her. Everytime i see him hold, kiss her, touch her .. i die a little inside. I've been so in love with my bestfriend that i've been led into a depression.
I'm a bisexual girl and i'm in love with my girl bestfriend. Is it normal ? and what should i do ?

Voting Results
73% Normal
Based on 60 votes (44 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 11 )
  • jensapa
    13 years ago

    I don't think u should tell her. Just be there for her when he breaks her heart, then hit on her!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    4
    4
  • TehPurpleOne
    13 years ago

    You should save her! Whenever he treats her bad, just punch him in the face, and carry her away! xD Be her hero, or heroine! xD

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • toady
    13 years ago

    Tell her how you feel.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    2
    2
  • TyLee
    13 years ago

    Aww that really sucks! I feel bad for you cause I was in similar situations.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    1
    1
  • dappled
    13 years ago

    I don't get it. Do we have to fill in the names on our screens with a felt pen? :)

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -1
    -1
      -
    • monkeysee68
      13 years ago

      hahahahahha nice one

      Comment Hidden ( show )
      0
      0
  • thenbhdjesse
    6 years ago

    the first thing to do is tell her babe. the only way to get over something is to get through it and to do that you have to tell her that. I told my best friend I was in love with her and it helped me get over her. it took me many drunken nights to get through it but I'm over it now. its not permanently gone but I don't love her anymore. just give it time and truth

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • HistoricalGirl
    12 years ago

    I'm bi too and I'm in basically the same situation except that her boyfriend isn't mean but he does live in another state(I'm fine with her being with him it's just that they've never met face to face). I agree with TehPurpleOne that you should defend her, call him out, show her what's he's doing, and that when she gives up on him move in. When he's gone don't be too obvious- she may not feel the same way about you. Just be there for her and don't rush it. Try to find out how she feels. Remember be very careful about this situation- don't talk badly about him until they're over, don't rush anything, and of course be respectful of her and how she feels.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    ^maybe, lol

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    0
    0
  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    -sigh- another "I love my friend" story. When will these types of stories die out? because every single one of them are normal. Yes its normal to love your best friend and yes its normal that a female can love another female in that way now get over it. If people really need an answer for stories like this to find out whats normal and not instead of knowing on their own then you need to grow up and learn more.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -2
    -2
  • ilurvemyfriends
    13 years ago

    Well it's normal that you're in love. It IS not normal to be in love with the same sex though. But if I were you, I would make sure that he never will hurt her. I'll make him see what will happen if he doesn't stop flirting with other girls. Like maybe humiliate him until he wants to die? I dunno. Use his weakness against him. However, if you can't stand watching him and her together, I suggest that you tell her how you really feel. But I must say that your freindship might get affected. She might hate or maybe stay away from you. But she may also retun the feelings and you get a happy ending. But the possibilty of your friendship getting broken is high. It depends on how close you two are. If I were you, I would keep my feelings inside and help her through any relationship. I would stay by her side no matter what. I would also crush any guy that dare hurt her. But it's your choice. Think about it really carefully. Do you REALLY LOVE her as a lover and not as a family? Think about it, your friendship depends on it.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
    -5
    -5