I'm in love with my friend's step-sister and...

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I know this site is for "Normal? Yes/No" kind of things, but I'm down to last resorts. I'm in love with my friend's step-sister and I've been harrassed for months for it. The harrassment put me in the deepest depression I've been in in a while. Because of the harrassment, My friend's step-sister isn't allowed to talk to me anymore. I feel I've managed to resolve the harrassment as of late, but my depression hasn't been getting better. Then, just today, I was talking to some friends on xbox (yeah, I'm a gamer) and she happened to be in the chat party, but had me muted because of her dad's rule about talking to me. When I saw she was in the party, I could literally feel my heart skip a beat then sink out my ass. I stayed for about fifteen minutes until I couldn't take it anymore and my emotions won out. I left the party and just lied in bed crying. I just want to know what you all think of the situation and what I should do. Again, I know this isn't the site's main purpose, but I'm out of ideas.

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  • ShaneqwaFrost
    12 years ago

    It seems like there's something missing to the story. I don't get why they're harassing you but whatever, people are cruel.

    Do things to keep your mind off of it when you're feeling down. Tell your friends that you don't treat them like a child with immature harassing and teasing so you expect the same treatment from them. WHY do they care? It's so rude. They're clearly immature. It's okay to like someone, don't beat yourself up over it. It's normal to get so infatuated that you cry, scream and do other crazy things, too...we've all been there. Love makes you crazy.

    Wait it out for a little while until she's allowed to talk to you again then see where it goes! :)

    -Answer mine...?

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  • Frosties
    12 years ago

    Who is harassing you and why?

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  • Lynxikat
    12 years ago

    Why would your friends harass you for liking your friend's sister? Why would her father forbid her to talk to you or be around you?

    Is there something missing from your story, or are these people just total wack jobs?

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    • noneo97
      12 years ago

      My friends harassed me for their own reasons, some I understand, some I don't. One of them in was particularly cruel to me because he went through the same thing I was going through but didn't want to admit that he had it slightly better than I did. As for her father's decision, no one knows but him.

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  • noneo97
    12 years ago

    @ShaneqwaFrost
    I wish my iPod would let me do a direct reply, but anyways, my "friends" stopped harassing me and I thought my depression would lighten up. Only it seems to have gotten worse. And no matter what I do, I always find myself thinking of her. And her dad is really strict (from what she told me before this whole situation) and her step-brother said he'd try to "lift the ban", so to speak. Only it's been a while and he still hasn't and just recently he flipped out on me for asking if he has.

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  • GuessWho
    12 years ago

    I hope it works out for you in the end.

    Maybe you can talk to her on email or something else of the sort that no-one else monitors.

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    • noneo97
      12 years ago

      And her parents and step-parents monitor everything, including FaceBook, Skype, e-mail, Xbox, anything she can chat with.

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    • noneo97
      12 years ago

      I would except she doesn't reply anymore. I don't know if it's because of her dad's rule or because she just doesn't want to talk.

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  • noneo97
    12 years ago

    My friends WERE harrassing me for three months because I'm in love with a friends sibling. After a while, I finally decided enough was enough and went to my gidance counsoler about it and he called down who I feel was the biggest "threat" (for lack of a better word) and we had a one-one-one chat about it, found our common ground, and worked it out from there. Problem is, my depression didn't get any better after it was resolved.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Well, I can definitely say the depression is a normal thing. I mean, you're being separated from someone you love. It's good that the harassment stopped, but the fact that she still can't talk to you is sort of confusing. Why does her father not want her to talk to you?

      If I were to try and give any advice, it would be, try talking to her father about the way you feel. Let him know that there won't be any more harassment and that you just really want to be able to talk to her again.

      I don't know if this is the kind of thing you were looking for, but I hope I was able to help out a little.

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      • noneo97
        12 years ago

        That makes two of us that don't why she still can't talk to me. Her step-brother (the one that started/ended the harrassment) said he would talk to his step-dad/her father about "lifting the ban", so to speak, but he still hasn't said anything to him. And if I could talk to him about it, believe me I would. But thanks for the advice.

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        • [Old Memory]
          12 years ago

          Oh, I see. Well, that's truly a shame.

          No problem! Just don't give up, love is such an important thing to pursue. I hope the best for you.

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