I'm in love with my bestfriend, am i normal?

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Well basically as the title says I'm in love my bestfriend, I'm a guy and she's a girl so nothing unusual there. We've been best mates for around 6 months now, we talk about everything together and are practically never seen without the other. She's had boyfriends during this time and I've had a girlfriend but we still preferred to hang out together but this is because I like her more than just a friend. Any help?

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  • Terence_the_viking
    11 years ago

    No you are not normal you are fucking crazy

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I'd say to be careful with how you say you like her, but still go for it, I fell in love with my friend from 2 years ago and... I wouldn't say regret not telling him but I still wish I did because now I'll never know if he liked me. you seem to be lucky enough not to have pressure about it, I did and I think that's what made me fall in love in the first place and held me from telling it. (I'm a girl so nothing weird about this one). Now I have a worst problem about feeling for a Bestfriend and I'd say just go for it because YOU have some chances that she likes you back.

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  • mcrluvaby
    13 years ago

    iv had a thing for a guy iv known for 12 years. we started out knowing eachother thru our little sisters (because they were freinds). then once we got older we became real close too. both, having significant others and joking and complaining about them with eachother.
    secretly i had a crush on him for the past 3 years. only a few people, even a past bf knew i had a drop-everything-for-him mood.
    one night he told me he had the same feelings for just as long.
    we ended up fooling around..not gonna lie, it was better than anticipated..but that cliche thing happpened. we dont really talk anymore. he's busy with school and work back to back right now. and hes moving in a week an hour away. sucks. so i know ur feeling. but you should find some "random" time to say something. dont be scared of rejection. ull feel a lot better saying somethign than keeping it in. i breathed the biggest sigh i ever have after i admitted it.
    this is what i tell myself, "it can't kill you"..unless it really can. in this case. nope! :) good luck dear! hope all goes well

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  • catsarenice123
    14 years ago

    *Long sigh of empathy* I love my best friend, too. It's perfectly normal, if you two have an intimate emotional bond, to want a physical one. Go for it. If you don't you'll explode with emotion. But warning: she may not feel the same. He doesn't. It's like a catch-22, you know?

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  • rawr1928
    14 years ago

    i went throughn the same thing with my current bf, actually he was dating my best friend and that how i met him but, i would say go for it, tell her but make sure if yall do go out u aagree tht if u break up the friendship will still be there, like i said im dating a guy tht used to be my bff and we have been dating for 5 months now and r REALLY happy with it so try it

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    Talk to her about your feelings. See what she would like to do.

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