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one of my best friends told me the other day that shes in love with me. I'm desperately in love with her too, but we are both dating other people. i know it sounds horrible, but there is no way we can deny our feelings anymore. is this in ANY way normal? what should we do?
I think you should dump the other people and tell them how you feel. Tell them (if this is true) that you really like them, but you love her and that your reallly sorry
This is a situation that is not pleasant, because you will be hurting other people in the worst way. I once had a male friend that had a girlfriend that lived 800 miles away. He and I were perfect together, but the pain that it would cause to his girlfriend was sitting in between us. He came to me one day and asked me that he wanted to marry me and would tell his girlfriend to get lost if I would tell him that I had these kinds of feelings for him. Nothing good comes from something bad. It was quite painful for both of us, but I let him go. He and her had 2 girls and have a great marriage. We made the right choice. It is called taking the higher road. It just isn't cool to hurt other people.
Happens all the time ¬¬ I Think its more abnormal if you didnt like each other
Wow. Looks like I ain't the only one! I was in the same situation too so what I did was I told the guy I was attached with that things weren't working out anymore. Sucks to be the person on the other side, but I think it's a way better idea as compared to cheating D:!
Hey man litsen same exact situation except I was dating anybody else niether was my best friend me and her had been best friends for 4 years we finaly admitted that we liked eachother I got up my balls despite the fear of if anything going wrong and ruining our friendship we've been dating for a year it's our 5th year since we've known eachother and we are in love so do it otherwise ur missing out on the best feeling in the world
This is so cute. If you guys are best friends and have knoww eachother for a pretty long while... That can definitley replace them other folks because im peretty sure you guys would last much longer. And it efinitelyy a risk to take(: