I'm in love with my best friend?

I really can't believe I'm posting on one of thse sites but I've been love with my best friend for about 6 months now. We have been best friends for about 2 years and tell eachother everything, talk every single day, all day, and hangout all the time. I've always had some feelings for her but after girls upon girls that just weren't working for me, I developed some serious feelings for her. I thought I was just crushing but it became painfully obvious that she was the one. There is one major problem. Her ex-boyfriend of 4 years has been one of my closest friends for 5 years. They broke up a few months ago. They still hangout and get touch and cuddle when I'm there too, which is painful for me to watch but I act like it doesn't phaze me. But it's obvious they aren't right for eachother and she knows it. Recently her and I talked about what we meant to eachother and she told me she cared about me more than anyone amongst some other things. But since that talk, things have just been weird between us. I don't want to tell her how I feel at the risk of causing turmoil between me and my close friend of 5 years, but at the same time this is eating me up and feel like I can't go much longer without telling her. Is it normal to be in love with my best friend? I need advice, hopefully from someone who's been through this but I'll consider anyone's thoughts.

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  • Why69icecreamman

    Well i had the same problem in high school because all my friends are girls and i just was in love with one of the girls and her name was Courtney. Everything played out in the same manor except her dating a friend of mine. She told me that she love me and one day we was going to be together but until this day me and the one i have been loving for the longest is still friends. So to be honest all you have to do is tell her because if not now than your time will be never. I know exactly how you feel. in the long run you going to regret that you keep you mouth closed. To be honest i still love her! HOPE I HELPED!

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  • MarieWantsIt

    I can't work out if you are male or female. Which are you?

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  • Thatguy777

    I don't think you should tell her. Yesterday I revealed to my best friend who's a girl that I liked her, and now she doesn't want anything to do with me simply because she doesn't feel the same way.

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  • Failedcasanova

    Perfectly normal to be in love with your best friend. Its how it should be.

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  • zchristian

    Being in love with a very good friend is more normal than you think...

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  • I can't believe yet another "I'm in love with my friend" stories got through again.
    I seriously think that TheManagement should ban these "I'm in love with my bestfriend" stories for atleast a month or two.

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  • blackjack74

    I am a straight male. Thanks for the input.

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  • SoccerStud88

    well i'm not in love with you

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