I'm in love with a teacher and i'm sure it's mutual...is it normal??

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I think about him all day every day. When i see him my day gets better, but he's kind of confusing me. We've been talking and seeing each other and just talking about things most students and teachers wouldn't talk about, like sex and stuff, plus he's always calling me drop dead gorgeous and is talking about a guy is lucky if i even TALK to him and that any guy is a crackhead if he doesn't want me. He looks at me like i'm just the most beautiful thing he's ever seen and he looks at me like he's in love. when we'er talking he's staring into my eyes. then one day he took me to a place in the library where not a lot of people would see us and showed me pictures of his house, kid, car, and wife and said" So i have like the perfect life righht? dream house, dream kid, dream wife, dream house. then tell me why im so interested in you? i mean you're beautiful, drop dead gorgeous, smart, funny, mature, you're everything a guy to wish for." So that day he made me think like oh yeah, it's official. buuuuut the next day i asked him what he meant when he said that he was interested in me and he kind of friend zoned me. he said that me and him are coo and that we "hang" and that he loves hanging around me and that he's happy i let him be n my life. then he repeated what he said the day before bout me being smart and beautiful and etc. then i asked him why did he bring up the whole dream life thing then when he said it and said basically the same thing. so what do you guys think all of that means ?? ?? then on top of that one day me and him were talking about sex and stuff and he didnt want me to go past his desk , he was smiling and was like no please. and kept talkin bout how he had to stay profesisonal and we were flirting and stuff. then he kept asking me for my kik name and i found out that he looked up my information in the shcool system beacuse he called me by my middle name and wouldn't tell me how he knew . he just said that he new everything and smiled. when i walked him to the door so he could go to his car we weere messing around and he wouldnt tell me why he wouldnt let my go past his desk in the room so i flicked up on laughing and he mumble to himself i wish lol someone PLEASE tell me what this mean. he playing games lol PS he gets jealous when he sees me with another boy or if i tell him about one. he says stuff like ol boy needs to chill out and stuff like that

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  • CountessDouche
    9 years ago

    God, how disgusting.

    Listen, I'm not saying that your feelings are not legitimate or that there's anything wrong with enjoying the attention, but you're young, and you probably don't know much about relationships. The fact that someone would engage in this type of behaviour at the risk of his career, the fact that someone would abuse a power relationship to engage in what could be classed as sexual harassment just for an ego stroke...all red flags. Even if you do have feelings for your teacher, trust me, he's not the type of man you want to be involved with.

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  • donttellanyonemyname
    9 years ago

    IDK. I'd say it wouldn't make a difference if you had sex. I didn't have sex when I was in high school, but everyone else was. It was literally like a porno in my high school just without the cameras. Teachers having sex with other teachers even when they were all married. Students and students, that's a given. And then you hear about the the sexy gym teacher that has sex with some of her students and an electronics teacher that all the female students love because he has a big dick and fucks the students when they turn 18. I've seen these things happen when I was there so I believed just about any sex rumor that went around. Kinda felt left out to be honest. Just being honest. I'm a guy. That's a fantasy for all guys. Just feel like I missed out on a lot. All those STDs and nobody wanted to share. What kind of shit...?

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    You should understand that you are just one of many little school girls who this teacher sees every day, many who probably have a crush on him. I'm sure he treats them all just like he's treating you. You aren't special or different to him; just entertainment.
    It seems he enjoys testing his powers of attraction on young, impressionable, school girls. It's just a game to him. If he was smart, he would ignore you, but since he doesn't (unless your whole post is just your imagination) then he'll probably get fired soon and you won't ever see hm again.
    Go find a little school boy your own age and forget this teacher.

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  • Faceless
    9 years ago

    omg. another wall. shit.

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  • mystery7
    9 years ago

    First - how old are you?

    If you are under age and he makes that one wrong move with you, he'll lose everything and you'll be visiting him in jail. And pretty much ruin his life. That's the reality these days for a teacher that has sex with a student. So best not to lead him on.

    Wait until you're out of school and you are legal. That way he may lose his family etc but at least he won't go to jail.

    If you are under age he sounds creepy to even consider it with you.

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