I'm in love with a girl and she's my best friend what should i do?

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I'm a boy
I'm so in love with here she's one of my best friend we had a lot of years together ....
i don't think she have this feeling (love) for me "just friends" and we never had a talk about love or something like that not a lot in common but i do really loves her like hell i will kill my self for her!
I'm so confused should i tell her that i love her or keep it with me to not risk those 10 years of friendship!...?

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  • cremeegg
    13 years ago

    Dont tell her just yet because you never know what could happen. Maybe you should give her hints to start off ?

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  • onlybarno
    13 years ago

    Don't worry about losing your friendship with her because the truth is you don't want to be her friend; you want to be her boyfriend.

    That said, you will fail if you just out and tell her. Don't spend all your time with her and do favors for her, etc. If you want to be her boyfriend, then back off a little and treat her like a girl, not a friend. Then tell her what you want. If she says "no" then be understanding but tell her you can't be friends with her because it would be dishonest.

    She will either date you or respect you.

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  • Brittanylovesu33
    13 years ago

    There are like a 10000000 posts like yours. It's the most normal thing ever.

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  • littleeshee
    13 years ago

    Is ur name Matt?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Next school dance (if still in school) ask her to dance. The same thing happened to my freind and this worked great.

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  • samue1
    14 years ago

    If I were you I would keep it a secret. Don't let her know or you will destroy the friendship and make things realy awkwar, instead you should try to find out if she feels the same way.

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  • alexisfreak
    14 years ago

    Tell her. She probably likes you back.

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    • Hadi88
      14 years ago

      and if not ?!:S

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      • BugzBunnae
        14 years ago

        Talk to her about love first, you know see how she views if, see if she likes someone, then be upfront about it, say something like "I don't want to ruin our friendship" then she would be curious and ask you what was wrong then tell her "I really like you" (don't scare her by saying love yet) and if she say i only want to be friends then theres your answer, and its going to hurt if she does say that but at lease she is still in your life, and if she smiles and say "I like you too" and she dont mean it to just be nice then smile back and take your time to build up your new level of relationship. Don't be so worried and stressed about it, be confident and know what you believe in.

        But yeah, It sounds like love to me :)

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  • Hadi88
    14 years ago

    need solutions plz :(

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