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I don't want to like her, but I think she is also likes me and now I kinda have feelings for her now, what should I do?
| Ask her out asap | 18 | |
| Not ask her out to strain the friendship | 4 | |
| Ask her out over the phone | 1 | |
| Find a way to fight these feelings. | 2 | |
| Ignore her | 1 |
I get that you don't want to ruin the friendship, maybe just take it slowly. If you just flirt a little you'll probably be able to figure out if the feeling is mutual.
Do NOT ask her out on the phone!! (Except on a casual date, if you only imply it's a date and don't actually use the word "date"). She'll probably want you to have the balls to ask her out properly, since that will show that you're seriously interested in her and not putting your relationship in jeopardy without really caring about it.
But yeah, ask her out! Better to try than to be sorry ;)
Good luck!
Ask now! Once you are only in the friend zone, it's over. Might be awkward but break the ice. If she's your friend, she will understand. If it's not mutual, at least you will know.
Have a conversation with your friend on this matter if you feel so inclined.