I'm confused if i love this girl.

There's this girl that I really like, and before I sleep I always think what I want to say to her the next day and ect. My heart races when ever I think of her. I always want to talk to her and help her out.

We're not dating and she doesn't know I have these strong feelings for her. Plus these feelings have been growing slowly for at least 5 years. The feelings weren't as strong in 2008 as they are today.

I just want to if the feelings that I feel for her is love, or is it just that I'm crushing on her.

Yes, you do love her 28
No, you don't love her 3
Idk 13
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  • Shackleford96

    Ask her out. What have you got to lose?

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  • You've got to ask her out! Go somewhere fun like to ride go carts, bowling, zoo whatever. If she accepts then she's probably interested! When your out, be playful and get her to smile then tell her how beautiful she is, like, "o my god your so sexy," or beautiful and watch how she responds...

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  • Abend_zersetzen_mich

    Aww, that's cute. Just ask her out to eat or something. Try to have confidence.

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  • Angelwings999

    Hormones

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  • DangerousPotatoGuy

    uhh that's cool just don't let her slip for the second time while waiting.

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  • Paradiddle

    5 years? Seriously, please don't wait any longer. I'm amazed that this has been going on that long without any attempts at all. I know its been said before but you don't want to keep waiting and find out she is taken or worse yet, married down the road. You won't get anywhere just admiring from afar so take the advice of a certain man from Mass Effect:

    "Heavy risk....but the prize.."

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    • Boba3597

      Well the reason why it's been 5 years is because I have never felt like this about her before until now. Plus she broke up with her bf 4 weeks ago. I'm going to ask her out soon. I just wanted to wait for her to get over him.

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      • Paradiddle

        I see, you're saying it wasn't really this intense until lately. Thats cool and its great that you're willing to wait a bit before making a move due to her breaking up with someone not too long ago. I hope it goes well, isn't she lucky that despite her loss, someone else already is willing to make her happy again?

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        • Boba3597

          Yes!!! Hopefully she'll say yes. Wish me luck.

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  • braintrip

    puppy love

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