I'm confused about my sexuality?

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So this is really weird but sometimes when I'm with one of my friend's who's a girl at night I feel bisexual. We held hands at night once and I felt like I was totally bi. But the weird thing is is that I only seem to really feel bisexual during the night? Is this just hormones or something? During the day I feel totally straight. I'm currently dating my girlfriend right now, I was totally for it during the night. I loved her and I was so excited to see her the next day. But right now it's day time and I don't want to be with her, I want to be with a guy. I know this sounds so weird but I don't know what to do?! I'm just so confused right now, and I don't want to break up with her because I don't want to hurt her feelings. I mean when I think about doing stuff as a couple with her like at a restaurant or at the mall together I feel happy and totally fine. At school though I'm afraid to just say I love you. What should I do? I don't know what I am and it's making this relationship really difficult.

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  • melbournegirl
    11 years ago

    I would explain to her that you are in a difficult position regarding your sexuality at the moment and you're still trying to work out what it is that you want and what you like.

    You need the time to learn about yourself, with a supportive partner. Someone who won't be offended if you do end up realising that you're totally straight.

    I haven't voted because I don't feel that any of those options quite match what I want to say.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    Suck some cock and let us know how you like it...and don't forget to swallow the cum...

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  • Randomgirl14311
    11 years ago

    Stay friends and just do what makes you happy whether its with a boy or a girl it doesn't matter :)

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  • Bijoofoo
    11 years ago

    That's so interesting...I think maybe you're sexually attracted to girls but romantically towards boys. You imagine everyday life with a boy... Which makes me think you feel more comfortable with boys longterm and just have a curiosity with girls that's based on sexual attraction. Totally normal.

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    • Heyhi
      11 years ago

      Thank you SO much! That's exactly it!

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  • myownopinions
    11 years ago

    I wouldn't say you should break up with her, but maybe you should consider spending some time apart until you know your sexuality. Even if you are bisexual, that shouldn't impede your relationship in any way.

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