I'm bi and can't talk to guys!

I'm a male bisexual and I have a slight problem. I can talk to girls, no problem. I can get a gf anytime. However, I can't talk to a guy. idk why, but i can't. Is it normal. I need advice.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • DiscoDuck

    Maybe because you think they can tell you are bi and are ashamed or embarrassed. Once you get over that you will be able to talk to anybody and know when you can move in more intimate directions if need be....

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  • Whats with all the haters? Its people lile this that make me lose faith in humanity.

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  • skyhuh24

    What the f is wrong with being gay? What a naive bunch of commenters

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  • BlueWolf

    I'm gay I have the same problem. Nearly all my friends are girls with the exception of one guy I met way back in Jounior High. Since then I haven't been able to make any guy friends much less find one to go out with because I just can't talk to them. It's like a kind of messed up fear or something.

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  • theRealDeal

    Fuck those gutless pricks above! Don't sweat them. Do what you feel is right for you. Do it once-just like riding a bike-you get better each time!

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  • gako

    You dirty faggg. Rot in the helllll

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  • ninjaman420

    Gay queer go to hell

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  • Dirty

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  • violet3

    I agree with about 4 comments on here, bi and gays are gross on so many levels... heres an advice for you, why not just turn straight, that way people wouldn't think you're queer =]

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  • Faggot!

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  • I agree with the comment above nobody likes faggots like u

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  • asscake

    Yes cuz faggets are gross and guys think that to

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  • Andyen

    I have the same problem. I've been open with friends about being bi. But they are all girls. I would say im not that bad looking and such but when it comes to guys.. i just freeze up and become akward around them. Girls are no problem, i'll just tell them i like them. I only once spontaniously went up to a guy I liked and told him I liked him. He hit me.. so maybe thats my problem. Do you think your worried that the guys you may like will become physical.

    I think my advice would be this. If your having issues talking to guys. Find some female friends that are like guys and then you'll have a better understanding on how to aproch a real one. I mean girl/guys are not hard to find.

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  • Andyen

    Its a normal thing. it can also have to do with the way your brought up. Remeber that this is not a bad thing. Also you will find one or two male friends, but the majority of your friends will be female. On the plus side. How many straight guys can say they have that many female friends..,. not many, trust me.

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  • amyxox23

    I hate people that are being so rude to you! It's probably because you're afraid of them because maybe they aren't bi or gay. And you're afraid they will reject you and some guys are mean and maybe they're the kind of jerk who will go around telling everyone so you get made fun of. I don't blame you for being afraid.

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  • bobthebuilder44

    Well first of all fuck y'all with the first two comments.. Ok and u could be just flat out gay. And that's why it's hard to talk to guys.

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  • It's cuz uk people won't judge you for asking out a girl but once u start asking guys ppl look at u different. Also your more likely to be rejected.

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  • jean

    You are the reason:
    That Kurt Cobain said he would've liked to be gay just to piss off homophobes
    They invented the movie Legion,'cuz god lost faith on humanity and in fact, most ppl with an open mind have.

    I cant help tou in this one dude srry.:(

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  • gowila

    Just get drunk and it will be easier.

    I love faggots by the way

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