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ok, so ive been with my girlfriend for over a year and am in love with her, but am sexually attracted to other girls more than her. is this normal? and should i act on my feelings and risk my relationship or not?
Remember when you were first with your girlfriend? And how attractive she was? Other girls are like that because they are new and mysterious, and if you ruin the relationship you have now for another girl -> The new girl will become boring as well (it's a cycle). You have to spice up your own sex life.
P.S. I bet TONS of guys would love to be with your girlfriend.. Don't take her for granted!
It's completely normal, but since your in love with her and have been with her so long do NOT actually act on your feelings!
Its okay to look, but remember your in love with someone already.
talk to her 'bout it. open relationship?
I think that love and sex are very much one and the same; to consider sex as just an act, like brushing your teeth or vacuuming, would destroy the integrity of it.
Normal, but please -- keep her in mind.
Try asking her for a break so you can 'think about your feelings' or something vague and cliche but not hurtful, then go screw other girls and then see if you want to get back together with her or you would rather continue screwing other girls without being in a relationship?
moderatly normal its ok to be attracted to other girls , just the same she finds other guys attractive its just human nature but dont act on them ok theres nuthin more hurtful than cheating on your lover
It's normal for your eye to wander, even for you to get the hots for another girl, but if you're not sexually attracted to the girl you're WITH then there's something wrong.
It's very challenging for a man to set aside sexual attraction, no matter how much he loves the woman. And if you're seriously considering whether or not to step out on your girl, I think you have your answer. Your desire to be with someone else is strong enough that as soon as you have an excuse, you'll probably do it. My advice is to get out before you cause her serious heartbreak.