I'm attracted to almost everyone, seriously.

I don't think that you're viewing it the right way. I don't honestly think you literally "fall in love with everyone". Perhaps you just have a very open mind and are able to understand a lot of people others can't. People tend to only look at the negative things of a person instead of the positive things.

"I find the good trait in everyone, and that's the only thing I see" Yes, its' normal to notice the good personality qualities someone has. You basically answered your own question.

Lol

Are you French?

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firstly i would like to thank you for posting this ,coz it takes courage and then would also like to tell that you should no expect too much good feedback on this issue due to mainly 1 reason - not many people can and will be able to understand your situation except a few that are in it. i understand everything you are going through and can add more of the things you left out. but as for me after doing a full analysis of myself i figured that some of us are born this way but to many of us its got everything to do with how you grew up. i have trust issues which are the biggest source on my side. i can be able to see good in most people and get attracted to them mainly to their confidence and ability to challenge my intelligence. i get easily turned on by women who are open minded and quick thinking as well as unexposed body figures that keep me guessing. ive tried to ask for advice from many people but it doesnt help because this is connected to your heart structure and mindset . stopping this is not the biggest problem you will face but knowing weather you want to or not. the thing is we are able to see holes in peoples lives that need filling and because our hearts are filled with need to make others happy we end up trying to fill those holes ourselves.leading to cheating and hurting the ones who truly deserve us.trust- we never truly believe that anything that comes our way can be fully trusted with our hearts coz we have seen a lot people taking advantage of our kind. the more we try to be normal is the the less we become safe. in my case i wish i had never gotten married not because i dont love the person im with but because i never knew i was like this before it was too late .and because the person you are with might never be able to admit that the same thing that attracted them to you is the same reason for their insecurities and unhappiness. i know you truly love your boyfriend but he might never be able to get anything about you and you on the other hand might never be able to trust him with telling him how you are. but as long as it stays like this you and i will be bad and good people we are. would you risk you future with your man for something like this or would you choose to be with him and still feel bad for almost everything that you do . there dont seem to be much help for people like us

i said it was normal, but honestly i think it isnt, i am going through the same thing as you and thats why i am here. i feel like i want to date everyone and that i couldnt just stick with one person without cheating on them. i want an explaination as to why or some tips on what to do, but its so difficult to find. if you need advice yo can go to 7cupsoftea.com

I feel the same way. I cant believe someone else acknowledges this. People are sexy! There is always something to be attracted to. I have had many relationships and tend to fall in love very easily as well, but I think the fact that I am not picky looks wise makes my choice in men more sensible. I have dated a lot of great guys.

I haven't read all the comments but for what I've seen, no one's really getting it, right? So you meet someone and you automatically start going through every piece of skin with your eyes, listen to what they say and really pay attention to find out whether you would like to sleep with them or not. And then when you do, does it all go away?

Like, can you literally feel strongly attracted to more than 10 people per day?

I'm quite worried about this in me, I think there has to be a kind of procedure to learn how to control it. I guess and hope ha.

Am I one of them? kidding.

I have the same thing. I can and do find attractive things about everyone I meet. Then I start to daydream etc etc.... I think I'm weird because of it. My mates will bag me out because ill say stuff like " shay's not bad I could see myself with her" they'll be like Wtf dude.... She's ugly like a pigdog. To me looks dont have a lot to do with my attractions.
Told you I was weird!

As long as you don't become attracted to the wrong person that hasn't had sex in over 10 years.

If you're a teenager, you might just be influenced by all the hormones.

If you are not a teenager, then... hm... then I wouldn't know what to do about it. If you feel like it's hindering you from leading a fulfilling life, you should see someone about this. I know you didn't want that answer, but that's all I've got. Sorry.

I'm the same way. I can see somebody walking down the street and go "Look at your weird, knobbly knees… I'm kind of into it" or whatever. I don't think it's anything to worry about. I don't know if it's normal, though.

Have you in fact cheated yet?

If you havent then you have been able to at least hold back on your natural urges, which shows that you have discipline and self control.

Being this way is a good quality, its far better then being a cynical person. They are NO fun.

Besides if you are young then have some fun (within reason), plenty of time later in life to settle in and be boring.

Seeing good things on everyone is okay but one should not let his/her guards off on the other nasty side of the world where you must learn how to play as a human. Not necessarily to sin more or to act as saint but just keep yourself aware of the reality.

like.. seriously!

It's normal to see the good in people, and probably good to focus on that. It's not normal to therefore be attracted to everyone. Usually attraction is based on more than just one positive trait.

"I can't hold relationships because I'd be prone to cheating (I think)"
This makes me think perhaps you haven't been in many relationships, or perhaps any? In which case your inexperience might be leading you to some incorrect conclusions. You might be mistaking attraction with affection?

Maybe your desire to be romantically involved with someone is overtaking your ability to see people objectively, and to judge your own feelings? i.e. you want to be with someone so badly that you've stopped caring so much about who that someone is?

I find myself being the same way, and it leads to me being burnt by people quite often. Still, I would rather be this way then one of those skeptical people who cannot love anybody!

We need more people like you in the world. There will be more tolerance, less violence, and more peace. Basically, you feel like you love the world and the world loves you!

popcorn? that you isnt it?

You are only falling in "love" with the good you PERCEIVE in people. Once you discover they are not the ideal creature you had originally thought they were before you intimately knew them, you move on. Do I have that right? I might have misinterpreted you, let me know.

The thing is, with love, you see those inevitable flaws and still adore the pants off them anyway. Maybe you are stuck because you don't even give them a chance once you become familiar those flaws. By the way, every single one of us has flaws, even you, so you should get used to the idea that no one person will ever live up to a fantasy. Maybe your idea of a perfect mate needs to be tuned. If you let go of some of your expectations for people, you might start enjoying them more, even in general. One day you are going to meet someone who you will love so much that you'll awknowledge but look past those few flaws because to you they will be irrelevant. That's love.

You are welcome anonymous whore.