I'm an overly possesive and jealous/creepy girl

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Hi everyone...I just don't know if it's normal being so jealous and possesive with someone with who I'm not even in a relationship with. It's happened with all the boys I've met. I start chatting with them and if I see that they're online for one minute without reading my message I go nuts..I'm a constant stalker of their profiles and constantly see their ex-girlfriends profiles, and compare if I'm better looking than them and look at the comments in their pictures and everything. Sometimes I even check all the accounts on the boy I'm interested to see if he was online and maybe talking to someone else. If I could, I would maybe go to his job and see who he's talking to or if he really is working...I don't know what to do because I don't want to imagine how I'll be as a wife...if I'm ever one.

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  • MR.SexyJesus
    8 years ago

    Don't worry, some day you'll find your stalker in the bushes

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    Doesn't sound like a healthy way to be guys are not going to like that kind of stuff so if you do get in a relationship I wouldn't expect that to go over very well.

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  • shuttuppnerddplz
    8 years ago

    I can def say you're not normal and you already know you are possesive but seems like you just don't want to change yourself do you?

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  • 53739
    8 years ago

    It's normal to compare yourself to other women.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    Sounds like you could be overly competitive to be the number one girlfriend.

    Whatever it is, sounds like an ocd. You should try to focus more on your own life.

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  • Ellenna
    8 years ago

    You need to focus on yourself and your control issues: these feelings can't be making your life happy and any relationship you do get into will be ruined by them

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