I'm always wondering what people think of me.
I wish I knew how people see me.
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I wish I knew how people see me.
That's the thing you will never really know even if you ask them.
Example
Opinion guy: i hate Bobby Davros he smells like shit all the time
Bobby davros: hey dude what you really think of me.
Opinion guy: Oh hello Bobby you are a sound guy.
See what i mean?
No? oh well
i know i won't get honesty if i ask them. I mean that i'd like to find out through others maybe, what kind of thoughts people have about me? am i cool? am i respected? am i hated?
Even then there is no guarantee that's what people are saying about you.
Some things we are not meant to know and that's ok. I've seen this movie the main star goes nuts to the point that he wants to kill himself. Obsession is not a good thing. Don't spend your life worrying about others opinions of you.
Why worry about what ppl think live your life in a way that makes you happy you can't do much if anything to change what ppl think and why would you even if you could?
I used to get crazy hang-ups about it when I was a teenager. I was scared people were constantly judging me and thinking nasty thoughts.
(probably because they were, I went to the bitchiest school I've ever seen)
I've grown a thicker skin to it though. I've learned people will judge you whatever you do, whether it's for your hair, the way you dress, the way you speak. There's no "right" way to do anything because everything is "wrong" to someone. You might as well just keep up with yourself and do what you like, for yourself and nobody else*
*Not to say you should be rambunctious and just deliberately piss people off.
I think sometimes it's best not to know. If people think positive things they'll often compliment you or share it. They often don't share the negative and it may be difficult to swallow.