I'm afraid of vaginal sex.
I don't have a girlfriend because I'm afraid of vaginal sex. Just paranoid I'll catch something. I'm not a virgin. I'm a 23 year old male. Haven't had regular sex with a female in 4 years. Theres AIDS, STD, herpes. Not to mention getting her pregnant. I don't trust condoms. I've heard stories of them breaking. Are my fears normal? I had a girl blow me a week ago. That seemed to be ok. My brother thinks I need therapy. I'm not crazy, just careful. Maybe I'll get over this. I don't know. Just being honest. I beat off a lot.