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I've been single for 4 years, haven't even been on a date since my last bf...
I'm attractive, mid-20's why is it so hard to find a decent guy??
Depends on you definition of "decent".
The following to make an example.
I'm a mid-20's guy and never even kissed a girl. I'm not that ugly, I just have poor social skills. But I know well enough how poor they are to not even try dating because I don't want to disappoint any girl. I'm very honest (sometimes too honest) and if I ever get into a relationship, I'd want the girl to be just as happy as myself. And I don't have much money really.
So while being not your average cheating bastard, I have other downsides that are likely enough reason for you never to want to date me (if I'm wrong I expect an email! nah j/k). It may be a good thing to be aware that Mr. Perfect likely does not exist. That doesn't mean you have to accept just any guy, but re-think what's really important to you.
Sometimes nice guys are too shy to approach nice girls. Have you ever thought about approaching a nice guy and asking him out?
Nomal, it can be difficult at times. Keep your head up, he's out there :)
When you stop looking a man might just come to you. Look for riendships and maybe they may blossom into something bigger and better
why don't you stop looking for a bf? enjoy your life as a single woman, hang out with your friends, travel, focus on work, on your family, take care of your self, go to a beauty center, read a book. the longer you waste your time to find a man , the most it will be hard to find a bf... enjoy your life as it is and suddenly a man will come in your life
why is it so hard to find one? because you only pick the cool or sexy looking ones and its funny cause people like you know these people arent trust worthy but go out with em anyway and act all shocked when they cheat on you or summit find someone with a good persona if they arent the hottest around and u dont give them a chance well then thats why you cant find a decent guy
patience. god's plan for you is perfect and will come to fruition some day, even if it isn't in the way you would pick.
go to a club/charity/church event that you are interested in. You should be able to find a nice similar-thinking guy there.
Maybe you compare others to your ex? Or you have high standards?
maybe you should stop thinking your life is shit and go get stoned with a heap of hippies.