I'm about to get married and can't stop thinking about exs

I am a girl, about to get married to a man later this year. I've had 2 previous relationships with girls. Lately, I've been thinking alot about getting with a girl. I try and stop these feelings because I do love my fiance, but part of me wants to be with a girl. How do I stop these feelings? Is this normal?

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Based on 47 votes (22 yes)
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  • cathy22

    is this fair to your future husband?

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    • Droidlady

      I feel it's not fair, that's why I'm torn apart by this. I'm trying to get rid of these feelings about being with a girl, because I do love my fiance and care about him.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    See if he's up for a threesome?

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    • Droidlady

      I've asked him about having a threesome and he doesn't want to share me he said, which I can understand

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        hmm... he does know that he'll be allowed to have sex with the "V" too, right?

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  • ikalot

    threesomr threesome lol im 18 lawlsnees if yo husband doesnt want one then go with th girl see witch one loves u more

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  • norm

    If you aren't ready to go "all in" to the marriage, then don't do it.

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  • cathy22

    well it's like ygrowup said, you probably should try and settle this before you commit to this person. I'm sure you have feelings for him. Just be straight up.

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  • ygrowup

    You may be like most that seem to have need to get this out of you system before it might be to late! If you are then now is much better than later. If the need stays with you, then you should discuss it with him and both decide how to handle it together, or it may be time to move on! Good luck with your choices.

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    • Droidlady

      Thank you for the advice, ygrowup.

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  • AngAnders112

    threesome threesome threesome!!!

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  • MrsBailey9

    Don't read too much into this... It goes along with the territory.

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