I'm about to get laid for the first time and i'm extremely nervous

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I don't know what to expect. I've done all of the preparation (Condoms, Pregnancy tests for myself, etc) and even though I'm excited, I'm nervous. I have butterflies in my stomach. My partner and I love each other. We're both virgins. I feel like everything will go smoothly, but I'm afraid of the initial pain and afraid of pregnancy. How do I get over my fears? Does it hurt really bad the first time around?

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  • WeirdManFromTheSouth
    4 years ago | pl

    Dont let him bust a nut in you

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  • SKDM007
    4 years ago | pl

    go slow and i mean REALLY slow

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    • Ellenna
      4 years ago

      Good advice, but some idiot voted you down so I've voted you up which bring your comment back to zero and it's worth much more than that

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      • SKDM007
        4 years ago

        going slow = will last longer/will be more passionate/you can really look in each others eyes (unless its a hookup but i dont think it is)

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Make sure you use a condom!

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    Make sure your guy does a lot of foreplay especially on your pussy to make sure you are nice and wet. Make him rub his cock in your wet juices before inserting. Make sure he pops the knob of his dick in nice and slow... Have fun ya little fuckers

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    First couple times is always awkward. After you think, "Is that it?" You get better at it though.

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  • raisinbran
    4 years ago

    If it's his first time, the condom will ruin it.

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    • WeirdManFromTheSouth
      4 years ago

      This is true

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      • WeirdManFromTheSouth
        4 years ago

        Hes not gonna know how to control his precum tho. You have to be a pro at it to go raw. I can feel if im gonna precum and i pull outskies.

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  • WoodlandRose
    4 years ago

    Don't blow your load all at once, take your time enjoy the ride.

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  • FeralDefiance
    4 years ago

    As everyone's pretty much said, go slow and easy, and take time to let things heat up to a boil. Foreplay (especially on your bits) will help tremendously with comfort, but, when it comes down to it, just let things go as they will & enjoy each other. The first time is just awkward silly magic, and that's how it's supposed to be.

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  • randypete
    4 years ago

    Fuck bareback the only way

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    • Ellenna
      4 years ago

      Yeah, great for unplanned pregnancies and STDs

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