I'm a woman who makes women uncomfortable

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I grew up with lots of friends and very very social. If I was alone I was sad. I had lots of women friends who I never was attracted to in any way. I went through a deep depression during my marriage (which was loveless). I started spending more time online and became obsessed with seeing women and their breasts. I have since divorced but now I can't talk with woman without them feeling very uncomfortable and wanting to cover up their breasts. If a woman leans over and I see inside her top I get anxious- nervous - excited. I get flustered. I try and look anywhere else. I'm uncomfortable and so are they.

I do not have any attraction to women in any way - in that I don't want to kiss them; I don't want to have sex with them. I don't feel I am a lesbian. I am in a relationship now with a man and I love him. We have been together for 6 years.

I don't know why I am reacting this way and why I am making women feel uncomfortable. I hate it. I'm now socially awkward and avoid any conversations with women. They can be strangers and I still see them trying to 'cover up'.

I am not invited to parties and now have little to no contact with my friends from my past.

A therapist suggested I try being with a woman but honestly I have no desire.

Oh I should mention when I'm drinking it's not an issue. I'm relaxed and so are they. I can't go around being drunk all the time - so am I normal? What can I do to stop the nightmare?

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  • Azaman
    7 years ago

    Just go around being drunk all the time.

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    • Caseypoo
      7 years ago

      I don't like drinking much.

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  • Tempest-au
    7 years ago

    I have never heard of such a thing before. Are you sure they are uncomfortable and covering up, or are you presuming they are uncomfortable?

    Try deliberately staring at their nose. Might sound stupid, but if you focus on their nose it might make you less anxious, and as a result make everyone else less anxious.

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    • Caseypoo
      7 years ago

      They pull their sweater or jacket tight across their chest or pull up their shirt so it doesn't reveal anything. It could just be me being very sensitive. I can definitely relax more if the women are covered or simething is blocking their breasts like them standing in front of a plant.

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  • mysistersshadow
    7 years ago

    Women check each other out all time so it seems odd that they would react like that. Is there more to this story?

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    • Caseypoo
      7 years ago

      Have you ever felt 'naked' when a man looked at you? That's how I feel I make women feel.

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      • mysistersshadow
        7 years ago

        Of course happens all the time thats life got over that a long time ago been happening since I was 11 or 12. I've seen. Women do it to doesn't bother me who are these overly sensitive women? Friends or strangers?

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        • Caseypoo
          7 years ago

          Both strangers and friends

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          • mysistersshadow
            7 years ago

            Sounds like they need to get over it to me. I change clothes at work and at the gym and women look at me all the time and tbh I look to its not a big deal.

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  • ben_dover
    7 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with you when you see females bend over and you see their tits that you want to suck on them and play with them.
    Thats why you get anxious , nervous and excited.
    Because you have the urge to go up to them and say you saw their breasts and you liked what you saw and you were wondering that if they werent doing anything with them at the moment if you could see them in the flesh with no top on and no bra on and fondle them and suck on them for awhile.
    If they say , yeah , sure , okay , no problem , then absolutely go for it.
    Ir could lead to more.
    You both might take it to the next level and start kissing each other while you are playing with her tits and then reach down to her crotch and she will do the same to you and start fondling your breasts and then you both stick your fingers in each other's bald cunts and assholes.
    Then start licking each other's twats and get each other's pee , cum , poop on your fingers and put it on each other's nipples and tits and you both suck and lick it off of each other's nipples and tits.

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  • Blackstarxd
    7 years ago

    I'm so glad I'm not the only one having this issues for years now. This is my biggest reason why I don't have many female friends. When females who are not fully covered up are talking to me I try my best to look at them at their eyes but fail sometimes and see themselves "covering up". I even hold up something so I will only have to look at their eyes.
    But I can't believe therapist suggest you be with a woman when you clearly don't desire them. They can't seem to understand that it's hard to control your eyes sometimes.

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    • Caseypoo
      7 years ago

      I was hoping to find someone like me! Thank you. I'm curious - how do you dress? Do you show cleavage?

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      • Blackstarxd
        7 years ago

        I do show cleavage sometimes.

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        • Caseypoo
          7 years ago

          I am completely comfortable showing women my cleavage but not so much for men.

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          • Blackstarxd
            7 years ago

            I am comfortable both ways. I don't mind showing some skin to men nor woman but love when men act like they don't stare.

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  • pantychaffe
    7 years ago

    Women tend to be the most scarring of friends. I understand your feeling I too feel the same. I believe it is due to being more perceptive of shade and bs. I don't cater to peoples egos. Women tend to rival in that. I enjoy thy ebgood view than the loudmany.

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  • Freedom_
    7 years ago

    Go to a gay club and immerse yourself in the boobies of the queens. If you make them uncomfortable, something is very wrong.

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    • Caseypoo
      7 years ago

      I feel more accepted around gay women for sure. They don't act that way but then again they are more butch

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      • Freedom_
        7 years ago

        I meant drag queens, but yeah them too. Last time I went to a gay club the drag queens were practically shoving their tits down our throats. Just make sure you have permission before you touch because they are polite enough to ask before grabbing your baggage as well.

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      • Tempest-au
        7 years ago

        What planet are you from? Here on Earth, some gay/bi women are a little butch, but most of them act suspiciously similar to straight women. You'd almost think their sexuality doesn't affect their day-to-day interactions...

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        • Ass_gas
          7 years ago

          I'm a guy from Planet Earth (northern hemisphere). I notice no difference between straight women and lesbians. But they must notice a huge difference. When a lesbo talks to a straight woman, the lesbo is ignored like she doesn't exist.

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  • Rusty-Rider
    7 years ago

    Put on your "Booby Bandit" costume and and travel the World sneaking up on defenseless boobies and making their owners uncomfortable.

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