I'm a sex addict

Right, I am a good looking guy aged 25 athletic, handsome etc. I don't have a problem getting girls etc. But I have a girlfriend. and until recently I've never cheated on her in the 8 years I've been with her. She is extremely hot and every red blooded mans fantasy! Anyway, I've recently been seeing another girl sho is actually married. She is also so gorgeous! She said she loves having sex with her because I'm much more manly than her husband.

Last week on a Thursday Morning at 7:30am before work I had sex with my girlfriend for about an hour, got dressed/washed etc then went to 'work' But I ended up round this other girls house at 8:50am and had sex with her for a couple of hours.

Am I a sex Addict? I don't feel bad at what I'm doing I just crave Sex with beautiful women! Oh and I am in love with both of them. I do care about them both so much!!

Voting Results
46% Normal
Based on 95 votes (44 yes)
Help us keep this site organized and clean. Thanks!
[ Report Post ]
Comments ( 30 )
  • "I don't feel bad at what I'm doing" ... Yes - and you don't care about your partner either. You care, in a rather shallow, craven & selfish way, mainly about yourself.

    If this is all you want then have the decency to let your girlfriend go rather than deceive & manipulate her.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • You can be a sex addict without cheating on ur girlfriend!!!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • BoredGuy

      exactly!

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • RedAngelfire70

    Dump the new chick. Were those 8 years so horrible that you want to do this to your girlfriend? Put away your dick and only take it out on your girlfriend, dick.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • buckshot69

    I'm not going to judge you, I'm here because I want to help you. I'm gonna tell you something important.

    Don't cheat.

    Wanna cheat, can't cheat, because you will get caught or you'll break down and tell her.

    If you care about this girl you have to find the strength to end it with this other woman. I'm not suggesting you tell your current girlfriend. That's up to you, but if you love this girl, you should be committed to her.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • knowledgebytes

    OK. No this doesn't mean you are a sex addict. You just like variety. But it's not fair to your girlfriend.

    We all have things we want to do. Sometimes we want to fuck the shit out of the checkout girl at the grocery store. Other times we want to beat the living shit out of our neighbor until they stop twitching. But what makes us unique as humans is our ability to not act on every urge we get. It's what allows out social structure to remain stable. One critical element to stability is honesty.

    So my advice.....if you want variety....go get it. But cut your girlfriend loose first. Or at the very least, tell her that you want variety in your sex partners. Hell, maybe you'll find out she's actually OK with it!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
      -
    • kittycatrelle

      You forgot want to beat up co worker , too. Thumbs up

      Comment Hidden ( show )
  • LoveLVR

    You shouldn't be in a relationship if you wanna just be doin pretty girls... you can save them both the heartache and not do this to them...its not a good feeling to be the one being cheated on...

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • There is no such thing as a sex addict. It's a bullshit excuse for men to get out of getting in trouble for cheating.

    Stupid bastard. I hate men like you. I hope you die.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Silent18

    I fuck ur gf.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • *addict*

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • You ain't no sex addicting your just a two timing douche. Go die you nasty ass mother fucker. Not only are you cheat on your gf your making that other girl cheat on her husband. Sincerely FUCK YOU!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • alv1592

    Tiger? Tiger Woods?

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • moomus

    You're not a sex addict. Your just a selfish c*nt

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • ImMe

    I am a woman and I am in a VERY loving relationship with my fiance of a year and a half and I am almost positive I am a nympho... I crave sex so much that I am the one who has to masterbate not my fiance and I have never once cheated on him... if you care about your girlfriend or mistress you wouldnt be cheating on your girlfriend and you wouldnt be putting your mistress in the position of ruining her family ... sex addiction is not an excuse to cheat dick weed!!! buy a fuc*ing pocket pussy and wack off if you have to but dont fucking cheat asshole!!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • I'm sooooo not buying this you idiot. There is no excuse. You loser, have you though about stds? The heart of ur 8 year girlfriend that ur breaking? If you love her either STOP AND KEEP UR DICK IN UR PANTS or show this to her and let her breakup with you so that she doesn't have to waste her breath on you or keep being cheated on by you anymore.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • CountryRoads

    Not a sex addict. A sex addict wouldn't stay faithful for 8 years.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • BirdyMojo

    How can you say you love and care for them both so very much when you said you don't feel bad about what you are doing? This is just wrong, if you crave and want sex you need to be single and have one-night stands instead... preferably with people who are single as well..... because I don't know if you thought about it this way, you are also tearing up a marriage worse, I mean it has to be bad if she is sleeping with you while being married.... but you're making it worse... You are what I call a narcissist, and a narcissist is someone who only seeks to fulfill their desires and urges... you're not a sex addict, you're narcissistic. I cannot believe you say you love these people, and you feel no guilt or remorse for cheating or ANYTHING!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • xdamienlockex

    Your human man. Being perfect is no obligation if your sorry the guilt will ride you but more importantly is if your girl loves you she should forgive you. just remember what made you fall in love with her and think about tht before you cheat.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Treynine

    your not a sex addict your CHESTER THE CHEATER!! hahahaha you gotta take that guilt to the grave!!!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • drcheesy

    dude, am a sex addict, and i will never cheat on a girl i love.. NEVER!!! but i will fck her brains out though :P

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • mizztootyfruity

    If ur gonna cheat on her then dont commit 2 her...or any other girl! ur obviously not satisfied being a one woman man.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • Tht is so mean how would u feel if she cheated on u !

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • GregWith4

    Stop cheating!!! Damn what is with all of the pathetic losers out there that insist on cheating? With any luck the woman's husband has discovered his cheating sluts infidelity and is planning your demise at this very moment!

    You know the old saying, he's got a gun and a shovel and I don't think any one would miss ya! Stud!

    8 years down the drain! Your a loser. NOT NORMAL!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • GoodGirlgoingbad

    First off, i hope your girlfriend finds this :) Not only are you lying to her, you didn't mention one redeming trait about her that won't fade... Looks fade, personality never does! Is she nice, funny, caring, smart? What besides her looks, do you like? The same with the woman who is married...

    Plus how dare you? Having sex with a woman who is married and has made a life commitment with her husband. She is clearly playing you for a sucker because, guess what, she's married, and is having sex with her husband and you? She's lying to the santity of marriage, and the bible she promised she'd be committed to her husband with.

    So w.e she says, she's lying... And you to believe her, kudos to her?

    I feel awful for your girlfriend. A relationship based on sex? It's meaningless.... You need to control yourself because either it gets to the point where you have to have sex with over 10 different people a day, or you can have sex with the woman you love and realize that's what makes it the best sex you've ever had.

    Jesus christ.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • TehFaggmurderer

    Propps to the playa! There is nothing wrong! Fuck every single hot bitch you can get! More sandwiches!

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • seriously2233

    well first off ur chaeting on ur gf and then u think ur a sex addict well if u want sex u have yuor girl u say she is hot wwell then y do u cheat on her man. as a dude i think u really got to tell her the truth before she finds out or a least cut it off with one of them.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • tink_haley

    nah, i say its normal, hope you get a VERY understanding girl though,

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • DiscoDuck

    Nah, normal 25 yr old.

    Comment Hidden ( show )
  • iloveyou19946

    omg! thats sooo mean well idk if that really means your a sex addict, but omg how would you feel if your wife or girlfriend whatever cheated on you an had sex with another man? you would feel pretty bad! just think how she would feel if she found out! well you need to stop! thats really mean. if you really love your girlfriend then you would not cheat on her!

    Comment Hidden ( show )