I'm a male.....and i can't stand males

I have a confession to make: I think men are douchebags. And yes, I am a male myself.

Long story short, they just strike me as untrustworthy. Not to mention simply obnoxious. I am no feminist, but I must say that any form of misogyny pisses me off as well. Perhaps things were different in the past, but I swear that it seems like most men these days are either rapists or kiddie diddlers or something along those lines. They just creep me out. Pure and simple.

Another thing is that I absolutely cannot comprehend what women see in men; not really regarding physical attraction (granted, I can't understand that either), but emotional.

Personally I feel neither strongly masculine nor feminine; perhaps something else entirely. I am not gay or effeminate; in fact I am very defiant and angry, which I suppose would be considered masculine traits. Regardless, I don't really speak to people in real life, but I think that if I did I would speak to females exclusively or almost exclusively. I'm well aware that females are far from perfect, but that's simply not the point.

Anyway, is it normal that I generally dislike males and somewhat dislike being a male myself?

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    I know a few men that feel the way you do. They prefer the company of women because men don't have much to offer them and it is understandable, we all have different taste in socialization.

    I enjoy being around men, for many reasons. Do understand that men here in the US are generally respectful of women and the ones that aren't are matched by a population of equally undignified women. It works both ways.

    Statistically, you are correct, rapists and child molesters are more often male than female, however, 3/5 of females report being sexually assaulted in some manner in their lifetimes but 3/5 of men are not sexually abusive - what can be gathered by that statistical read is not that most men are abusers but that most abusers are repeat offenders. Hence, they're a minority among men in the states if anything.

    At least be open to the prospect of friendship with men. Both genders have much to offer and you'll find out that gender and quality of character are often unrelated as you go out into the world.

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    • Thank you for your intelligent input, ma'am.

      But if you ask me, 2/5 is far too many. Regardless, I could have sworn that it seems like they're the majority. Maybe I just let all the paranoia get to me, I don't know.

      MOST CMs are male; although contrary to popular belief, not all of them. Regarding the issue of female CMs, it's a lot like the issue of Black-on-White crime - the policy is to simply sweep it under the rug.

      As for forcible rape, I think it's fair to say that at least 99% of that is perpetrated by males.

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      • o_0

        i believe different genders can be good friends.. if you don't prefer males ,try females as friends... they might be more understanding for you...

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      • iEatZombies_

        99% Is a big number to just throw in the air.

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  • whiterabbitspin

    Welcome to the world of the feminist male! If men bother you, in the way they act and treat women, stand up to them, tell them how you're feeling because they will take you more seriously than a woman with the same point as you. The world would be a much better place with more men willing to put aside their masculinity and become more functional human beings. Keep up the good work and don't be afraid to call yourself a feminist. After all a feminist is a person who believes in the equality of men and women, which it appears you do.

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  • I have a confession to make too : I'm a male and i find the term "kiddie diddler" funny. :P

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  • iEatZombies_

    Screw all ya'll. I'm gonna hang with the martians.
    =]

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  • Ozzy

    i'd say its normal, it could be because you've been surrounded by males that aren't just as mature as you and that dissapoints you and makes you look down on other males

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  • "I think men are douchebags. And yes, I am a male myself."

    Except for your vagina.

    Seriously, it makes you sound like such a feminist suck up. People like you are always slimey sleazebags who try to suck up to women to get in their good books.

    Your ulterior motive is to get women to like you when you say this stuff.

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    • No. Just no. Sorry, but you're simply wrong.

      And come on, get real - am I right or am I wrong?

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      • No. Just no. Sorry, but you're simply a liar.

        Just like a "Misanthrope" being part of an internet community, that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard.

        So come on, get real, your full of shit.

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        • BLAh81

          "Just like a "Misanthrope" being part of an internet community, that's the stupidest thing i've ever heard."

          Yes, I've always found that weird too.

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          • I know right? Like it totally goes against what a "Misanthrope" is about in the first place.

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        • Hmm...you know, I do believe you're right! After all, you make SUCH good points! Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU for your incredibly thought-provoking input! Thank you, friend - THANK YOU a million times over for enlightening us all with your limitless wisdom! Be praised!

          Asshole.

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          • "I do believe you're right"

            So do I.

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          • BLAh81

            Pretty weak response I must say.

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          • Antimacy

            Misanthrope? I think you are a hypocrite. And also a paradox. You lose.

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      • BLAh81

        You are wrong.

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    • BLAh81

      Words of wisdom.

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  • What? "Most men are rapists and pedophiles"? Are you serious? There are certainly types of men that should be hated, and you'reone of them. Simply because more males than females do thos crimes "most of them" do it? Well hey, women are more known to kill children than males, so does that make most women child murderers?

    Well perhaps men don't want to be over emotional? Maybe they want to be more logical, and find being overemotional unneeded?

    So you're basing males on people you have not even met?
    To be honest, you sound like a feminist (mangina).

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    • Please work on your reading comprehension skills, friend - I said "seems like."

      Furthermore, I said child molesters; not pedophiles (they're actually two entirely different things), and I said "OR;" not "and."

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      • iEatZombies_

        You're really riding those technicalities, huh?
        Seems like = still offensive.
        Child molesters = still offensive.

        Your argument holds no merit and his comprehension is better than your point.

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        • Oh well.

          Look, "seems like" really is the operative term here, and no, I don't really feel as if it was out of line; just look at the facts.

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      • "Seems like", either way, you are implying that it is noticable to a degree that somehow "most" males engage in these things, regardless of the fact of you not knowing many of them.
        To you, you believe "most men" do this, because it "seems like" to you the majority do these things. I didn't think I needed to explain that since "it seems" this way to you that you most likely believe it's true.

        Yes, I was wrong, two completely different, you got what I was meaning though.
        You corrected me, yet still are to reply to the things that was obviously meant.

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        • you generalize about women all the time so whats the difference?

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          • I don't generalize them all to be the crime the minority of the gender commit more than the male gender does. That's the the difference.

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            • bananaface

              Firstly, I don't know if I'm reading this wrong, but this made very little sense to me.

              Secondly, you really do generalise. You once based the majority of your argument regarding male's contribution to society on the role of inventors. Me stating this isn't an invitation for you to defend that argument, I'm not interested. I'm just giving you an example of how you do generalise.

              Anyway, I lost all hope of having a decent argument with you when you said that 1/10 of all males are/were inventors. I don't know if you realise this, but that's fucking ridiculous.

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            • seems the same to me

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        • I thought the context of what I wrote was clear enough, but apparently that's not the case.

          Look, I'm sorry if I offended you, but I honestly still think that what I said was at least somewhat warranted -- for starters, just take a look around this site.

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          • To me, it wasn't, but I can accept that it could of been my fault, not yours for it not being clear.

            I have to dissagree with you still. The internet is a place where anyone can pretend to be anything. The majority of pedophile or child molestation imputs can very much be trolls. I'm not going to say all of them are, because I do know such men do exist.

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            • "The majority of pedophile or child molestation imputs can very much be trolls."

              Brother, I hope to GOD you're right!!!

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  • kinda

    I completely agree with you in this chapter:
    "Another thing is that I absolutely cannot comprehend what women see in men; not really regarding physical attraction (granted, I can't understand that either), but emotional."

    and that's y i think i am lesbian .. i am very kind in real life i am kind wherever :P and guys like me but i don't, i like females.i didn't come out yet, i like to messing around with guys but it is just messing i am more emotional with girls. and this chapter of ur story was my biggest problem in my teen i needed love while all girls like boys for nothing! and i don't feel in love with them ..
    i love females, i like the male's penis but i can't be in love with a penis! ^^ i need to feel in love with him.. i feel in love with females not with males to be onset i would like to have sex with females not for "sex" but for love ! i need that part in sex that is not physical that i didn't feel with a guy because i am not really emotionally attract to him.. this is the first time i meet someone feel like me in this thing :)))

    i read ur story Mr toilet ;) I'm not making fun of u , u know we met in chat today ;) ...I love to meet people who feel like me..
    but u didn't tell me how old u r :PP?

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  • i am male and perfer the company of women as friend i had girls as friends as school i only had 4 friends who where male the whole way through school,

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  • I think men and women are both untrustworthy as fuck. They are both all 99% sluts who deserve a bullet to the temple. I pride myself in being a good man. I have never cheated or hit a woman that didn't try to do actual physical harm to me. Trust me man, women are just as bad as men. This is why I hate society and people, or at least one of the reasons.

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  • KeddersPrincess

    A male that can't stand other males?! Females that can't stand other females, I've heard many times before, but a guy that can't stand other guys...? That's new.

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    • Really? Any idea why that is, ma'am?

      Don't get me wrong - I despise everyone and I'm of the opinion that the only good human is a dead one, but I simply do not hate them all equally. Just why is it that misogyny is apparently more common than misandry? Personally, I don't get it.

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      • BLAh81

        "I'm of the opinion that the only good human is a dead one"'

        Then why don't you kill yourself?

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  • Darkoil

    Fucking hell you sound like a right pussy, aswell you sound like you have no grasp on the real world.

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    • BLAh81

      Hell yes!

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      • I do not appreciate your input; it's utterly worthless.

        Please shut the hell up already.

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        • BLAh81

          Whereas your imput is fantastic? Please mr. "I call myself a misanthrope, but am still part of an internet community which helps others," your "misanthrophy" is a joke. Fucking hypocrite.

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          • Either be more intelligent or gtfo. Any future comments of such poor quality will simply be deleted.

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            • BLAh81

              Why won't you respond to my statement (and not mine alone btw) that it's pretty idiotic to call yourself a "true misanthrope," when you are CLEARLY not?

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  • A man can only see the world as he sees himself. Assholes see everyone else as being the asshole and kind people find kindness in the world.

    If you see the entirety of the male gender as douchebags, it's because you yourself possess that quality.

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    • This post is so intensely stupid that I simply have no idea where to begin.

      (On an entirely different note, I don't really see any point in writing anonymously anymore....so here I am.)

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  • ㅤㅤㅤ

    I know how ya feel. I'm a girl but I generally don't like other women.

    That doesn't mean I hate EVERY girl in existence, as most my friends are female - just generally I hate the females of this modern era.

    But hey, you have your reasons and that seems pretty aright to me. Just don't let us girls off the hook either - there are as many obnoxious males as there are female, ahaha.

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    • FocoUS

      Your username! How did that happen?

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      • ㅤㅤㅤ

        YOUR username! How did THAT happen?

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  • Misanthrope:

    No u! A nonsensical reply gleans a nonsensical retort.

    What did you expect me to say to this? =\

    But here I'll give a chance to redeem yourself. What is idiocy?

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    • ㅤㅤㅤ

      What?

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  • cigs

    Your joking aren't you anyways i will just keep thinking you're a female maybe you have your stuff switched around.

    Oh well do as you like with this comment delete it or whatever.

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  • o_0

    i'm a female and i also dislike many females.... its simple
    we never ought to be same.. indeed we all are too different!! you might be sincere and pure but that doesnt mean every one else is.. just focus on your own and try to make it better.. people will never judge you on wrong thing... whatever you will do will make you good.. so go on.. and forget all the others.....

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  • TheWordWizard

    I hate all sexes. All people bother me.

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  • keeping_up_with_da_kids

    My mind does not treat the one person as of decent of the gender origin whole concept brand stereotype. But some may reflect similarity's but still they are in fact different because the reasoning is behind my opinion is that no two personality are the same know matter how close the traits between come close.

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  • valbdreamer

    It's totally normal. I'm a girl and there is a bunch of attitudes i can't stand from people my own gender. It's like.. you don't feel identified. Normal stuff.

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  • FocoUS

    You know I'm tired of this all this "I hate men, I'm not like other men" matched equally with "I hate women, I'm not like other women."

    Yes. There is a negative male stereotype. Yes, it's perpetuated by the media. But instead of people looking at that and saying "Hey, I'm a man. I'm not like that. The media isn't representing men correctly. I demand it changes its definition of men!" they say "I'm a man that doesn't fit that stereotype. But instead of fighting that stereotype I will accept that stereotype of men and separate myself from my gender."

    also...
    Yes. There is a negative female stereotype. Yes, it's perpetuated by the media. But instead of people looking at that and saying "Hey, I'm a woman. I'm not like that. The media isn't representing women correctly. I demand it changes its definition of women!" they say "I'm a woman that doesn't fit that stereotype. But instead of fighting that stereotype I will accept that stereotype of women and separate myself from my gender."

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  • VioletTrees

    It turns out that men are people! Seriously though, maybe you should talk to a therapist about this.

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  • RaNdOmPoPcOrN

    You hate Kupo? :o

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    • chewy

      I like you.

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  • LizardSkin

    Then go have a sex change faggot.

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  • JustShoveIt

    I say the reason for prejudice is that the entire world is fucked up and people want to think their group is the only fucked up one or (most common) another group is the fucked up one.

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  • myboyfriendsbitch

    Now here is a man who has learned his place! YEEUH!

    Are you a virgin? You will make a fine sacrifice!

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    • LizardSkin

      Your username and your comment together make one big oxymoron.

      Seems to me you know your place.

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      • myboyfriendsbitch

        I'm telling Mother Goddess on you.

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        • LizardSkin

          why, it's a good thing. I can look passed the contradiction and see you know your role is below the dominant male. Good girl.

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          • myboyfriendsbitch

            Ok, lizard skin...

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            • LizardSkin

              Heh maybe you can see my other reptile when you're done being your bf's bitch... ya know my snake.

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