I'm a dude who's never masturbated at eighteen years of age

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Okay so uh even posting this anonymously is sort of embarrassing, but here goes:

I'm eighteen, nearly nineteen, and I've never masturbated.
On top of that, I'm not entirely sure if I even prefer men or women.
I kind of desperately hope this doesn't make me asexual, because I really am afraid of living/dying alone.

I never had a real girlfriend, mostly because I kind of just want to do things like go and see movies, kiss for sentimental reasons, that sort of thing, but eventually she is gonna want sex and I would have strung her along :(

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  • kelseyt
    13 years ago

    I'm asexual too, and the definition of asexual is someone who has no sexual interest. Cheer up, it doesn't mean you can't date! There is a such thing as being a romantic asexual, meaning you want romance (duh.)You just have to find the right person.

    I'm no good at relationshipish problems. Why don't you google AVEN, you should be able to find people there to support you :)

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  • AceOf<3s
    12 years ago

    I will say the same. I'm on AVEN (or hAVEN as we call it) with the same name. Come and join and have a chat :) I have exactly the same anxieties about not being with anyone, but on AVEN there is links to asexual meetups and dating sites. I would like to find an asexual guy to go out with that way :) good luck! You can pm me on there to ask any questions if you want :P

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  • thundercat
    14 years ago

    If you really don't feel the urge and are alright with it, just look for other asexual people and socialize more with them.
    If you don't feel personally well adjusted to your situation consult an endocrinologist and see what comes up from some clinical studies.
    Your fear of loneliness makes think in a high anxiety and anguish. Maybe behind this lack of drive is "just" a big underground depression?

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  • bioggy
    14 years ago

    Turn into a christian and say your saving your self for marriage or be truthful and tell her the circumstances and 9 times out of 10 women like that in a person it makes them feel special and if you do decide to have sex with her then it will mean a hell of alot more because you are her first.

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