I'm a bit confused, iin??

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Hiya,

is it normal to love really tough men but have a crush on a woman every couple of years? Most of the women have been horrible when I got to know them so I never bothered mentioning it, but I've been really miserable because of it.

I've got a crush on a woman now, a musician -- it's ongoing & must be the longest one I’ve ever had in my life. I don't want to say who it is because it's not the usual choice so it's embarrassing, but I've thought the sun shone out of her for a long while, so it doesn't look as if it's going away. & yes, I would if by some miracle it was offered.

I'll never be allowed to forget it if I’m found out, I can't be doing with the teasing I'd get.

I come from a close family so I'd be surprised if they didn't have *some* idea at least; they're just the type of people that never let you forget things you've said/done even if you said/did it 10 years ago!

When do you stop being confused about yourself & who you are??

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    Could it be that your mistaking your feelings? It could just be envy. Young men and women do this over famouse people all the time, weather it be for the same sex or not.

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  • la_la_la_la
    12 years ago

    Hiya,

    I have tried things out; it was good! I think I’m more worried about being put off this woman; not in that sense, that might go -- but I’ve listened to her for such a ridiculously long time it'd be a real shame if I never wanted to do so again. It hasn't mattered so much with other musicians because their stuff hasn't been as important or as good. I grew up with it too so I couldn't get away from it if I wanted to.

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    I realised my sexuality few years ago and they're times where I'm a bit confused about it.... I too fell in love in with a female musician & I'm somewhat embarrassed about it...

    I think it's normal. You could be bi-curious.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago

    you never stop being confused for the most part at least untill you understand yourself
    bi ftw

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