I'm 20 years old and haven't kissed/dated anyone

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I turned 20 recently and it really made me realize how old I'm getting. It also made me realize I've gone 20 years without kissing anyone, dating anyone or having sex with anyone. I don't even know for sure whether anyone's had a crush on me before, but I doubt it.

I just feel so awkward and unworthy of people's affection, and I guess I've always felt this way. I consider myself ugly, so I never really approach people for fear of being considered creepy or weird. I have a social circle and I've found friends consisting of both guys and girls I can genuinely enjoy being around, but when it comes to girls who I want to date I always hesitate. Either I'm too nervous she'll say no, or I'm afraid to ruin a friendship when I get to know her.

I was much more brave and bold as a kid, ironically, but I don't know what changed. I don't feel like a normal person, but more like a subhuman that doesn't deserve what he's got. I just want to be normal, but I have no idea how to be.

Anyone else in a similar boat?

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  • CreamPuffs
    7 years ago

    Be glad you're not a slave to love, and live your life for yourself instead of someone else. If you meet someone worth all the trouble, then go for it. But don't date some person who's kinda decent just for the sake of dating someone. What I'm saying is, there's no hurry. Wait until you find a really good match before getting into a serious relationship.

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    • JuicyDickhead
      7 years ago

      Excellent advice and excellent way to put it. You are awesome.

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      • CreamPuffs
        7 years ago

        Thank you. I'm happy to help. :)

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  • bucketfullofassholes
    7 years ago

    Don't ask here, people don't even know how to flirt with their own cock here.

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  • funlovingbitch
    7 years ago

    U r in need of a good fucking

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  • Zebrucie
    7 years ago

    Dude, if you and I were friends I'd be your wingman in a heart beat.

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  • kristys_mail
    7 years ago

    Yeah, there's guys older then that who can't get girls.... I know some of them have way too high of standards and others just haven't had the opportunity I guess.

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