I'm 24 and never kissed a girl before. is it normal?

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So I'm a 24 year old guy and I've never had my first kiss before. It almost happened with a girlfriend I had in the 8th grade but long story short it didn't happen. So not having kissed anyone you probably have guessed I'm a virgin and you'd be right. I've never done anything with a girl. Seen a girl naked nothing. I feel like my friends always have some girl they're talking to and I wonder why I haven't had a real girlfriend yet. Part of the issue I think is bc I went to a private high school 40 min away. I met friends there that I still hangout with on weekends. So I make the 40 min trip and go home st the end of the night and it'd be hard to have a girlfriend that far away. (I don't have any friends around where I live). But still like I don't even get to that point with a girl where if I was closer I could bring her home. I've never been on a real date before so what am I doing wrong? I'd like to say that i come off as confident most the time. I'm a little overweight for my height and age but I always thought confidence was what girl liked the most and a sense of humor. Idk I just don't know what I'm doing wrong. I refuse to use tinder or any online dating site bc I wanna meet a girl naturally not desperately ya know? I am a little self conscious about my weight when it comes to girls so maybe that's it? Maybe I should drop some weight then I'll be naturally confident? Any help?

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  • Cesar91
    5 years ago

    I had my first kiss at 19 with my college girl friend. Some people have it younger than that, some people have it older than that. Its different for different people, so its normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Why can’t your friends hook you up? If they have gfs, those girls likely have a network of unattached female friends. That’s how it usually works if you’re not doing anything online.
    BTW online is considered natural too.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      Yea I have friends who are girls and who are guys but I've never really asked them to hook me up w their friends

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      • [Old Memory]
        5 years ago

        Let them know you’re looking...and see what happens.

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  • nikkiclaire
    5 years ago

    Sounds like you expect women to make the first move. Have you ever tried asking one out?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      5 years ago

      I've asked a couple girls out before but got rejected and took it kinda hard so that kinda affected my confidence. I realize now that it's part of dating and shouldn't take it so hard. I haven't asked a girl out in a while tho

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      • user_224
        5 years ago

        Never be affraid of rejection! But always have a good respectful and sometimes fun responce prepared if you do get rejected. Getting turned down by a woman isn't a bad thing, helps keep us guys from swelling heads. But most of all, maintain your confidence even when you do get turned down.

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