I'm 20 and its lame but i'm trying to make a new bestie- am i full on?

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Im getting to know and befriend someone- she's awesome and we have only hung out once because I asked. Thing is I'm the one always messaging her first and we always have great long conversations and sometimes we talk for hours via fb. I'm the sort that when I like someone in a friend way I want to always talk to them and hang out often. I haven't had a close friendship in a ages and miss it! I'm a girl as well ☺ I feel like I'm more interested in developing a friendship than she is because I'm always talking and asking her to hang, though I know she really loves my company because we get along like a house on fire! Do I wait for her to ask me to hang because I feel like she won't! Am I too full on? I just want to make her my best friend ..

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  • harukim
    8 years ago

    you are an extrovert, and some of us are too shy to be the way you are. so yes, you are normal, but if your friend is an introvert then it will be hard to push her. please be patient...!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Hey again- Just wondering what to do as its been well over a month since we last hung out. I asked to do something with her not so long ago and she said she had an appt, then I tried again the following weekend and she said yes, so long as she's better ( as she's been sick) well the day came and she just said "hey is it ok if we do it another time"? So now what? I haven't spoken to her in about 3 weeks as I always initiate convo so I'm afraid she's not gonna ask me to hang?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      Thanks- Figured she's a bit shy ! Thanks for your advice- it really makes sense now

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