I'm 18 and i haven't touch a girl.

Keep in mind I am not curious at all, I am ridiculously turned on by girls and guys turn me off for sure. I just suck when it comes to talking to girls, and I really don't know what to do. So I'm 18 and I've never touched a girl, no kissing, making out, nothing. Am I normal, and what can I do to fix this? (obviously I know getting with someone will fix it, I just don't know how)

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Comments ( 15 )
  • BlueHair

    I didn't get my first kiss till I was 19. You'll eventually find a girl who likes you. I'm 23 and still a virgin. But I'm sure it'll happen eventually.

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    • Anders

      I'm in the exact same position, but i'm 20...
      Honestly, i don't think is normal, but this isn't exactly our choice...

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  • Biggy99

    Haha yeah same here 18 and still a virgin I mean I've been with a girl in the past but was nothing good. Now I've been trying my hardest to get one but I seem to fail when approaching a girl I can't seem to find the words to hold a convo with them if anything. But all I gotta say is good luck and maybe you'll find her sooner or later.

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  • wannarocktheworld

    fuck man! i have clones around the world! fuck!

    this is so fucking unbelievable, i mean, seems like i wrote that!

    so totally fucking me!

    no kiss, no hug, no romantic or flirtatious goodbye or sexy hi !!!
    and i fantasize of pressing boobs or atleast talking on the phone dirty!

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  • babyleigh

    completely normal. don't stress yourself over it, be proud. it's not that you can't get a girl, you just haven't found one good enough yet ;) my bf was in the same situation, no worries. just relax and have confidence the right girl will come along, because i promise you she will.

    i recommend making friends with a girl, with no intentions of taking the situation further.. the situation will take care of itself it you keep yourself from trying to make things happen. just let everything fall into place. :)

    good luck, i know there's a gorgeous girl out there who's gonna fall hard when she meets you. don't question it, believe it.

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  • NorisBboris

    Normal. My boyfriend didn't touch a girl until he was like 22.

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  • Brianx1987

    dude no worries, i didnt get my 1st girlfriend til i was 18 so dont feel bad. once you get your 1st girl then it becomes easier cuz then you become more comforble, im now 22 and ive had tons of girlfriends ever since. just have a lil confidence and you'll do fine.

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  • octowang

    I was shy but believe this, some girls really get off on shy guys and one of my older brothers girlfriend took me out to my garage and wore me out. I didn't have to do anything but obey! I'm very shy so I needed her and she loves molesting me...lol good luck

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  • srbija08

    dont worry my brother didnt find a girl till he was 20 and they been together for 4 years dont worry

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  • MrApollo

    Of course you're normal. I didn't loose my virginity until I was 21, and before that I hadn't done more than kissing, but even that didn't happen until I was 19. A lot of guys I know are the same, remember quite a few times what others say they are doing isn't what they're really doing.

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    • butimrighthere

      ok i seriously think im messed
      last night i got a message from this girl telling me she was horny, and for some reason i was just too wuss to go see her, i think because i was scared that i wouldnt know what to do
      believe me i'm 100%% confident im straight, i just, i don't know what to do

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  • lol i'm 20 and i haven't touched a girl!
    Its just stupid life,every day you have a 1/1000 chanse to do it, but we just aren't lucky!
    Now, make an effort and please some girl, hand out, talk, get out, and make chanse bigger! good luck.I should listen to myself! :)

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Tell me about it. I'm just too shy to make a move anyway and what makes it worse is that I'm always thinking about my best friend but she's straight and I'm pretty sure of that.

    It sucks big ass camel balls ;( I'm 18 as well..but ya know that's young yet :P

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  • NormalityMan

    Normal. Someguys just have a hard time with it. You'll get a girl, I beleive in you! Just find one you like. Talk to her and go from there. "Hi, hows it going?" and so on. If you get rejected, move on. 500 girls around you and I bet you can get 1 of 450 of them easy. Some are hard though, not denieing.

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  • ExistencePain

    Same here - If i find out. I'll be sure to let you know.

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