I'm 30 and a virgin

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So I am about to have my 30th birthday soon and I have yet to have sex with a guy. My friends and family pick at me saying to just get laid but I just can't seem to pull myself to do it. In the past I have messed around with guys I have gone out with but it's not been much more than making out and maybe some touchy feely stuff. Once or twice I have given head but both men told me to stop in the middle of it. I don't know what to do. Is this normal!

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Mmmpfh

11 years ago

People need to stop pressuring people into getting laid and let them do it in their own time....

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- Mexicano9000
  
  11 years ago
  
  Life isnt endless, opportunities pass and maybe by the time they are ready, time has caught up to them. sad but true.
  
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  - Mmmpfh
    
    11 years ago
    
    Then its best not to ruin what time you have with rash decisions. That's my motto! Kinda. ( °-°）
    
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kreepietoast

11 years ago

Mr. Right hasn't come knocking yet. It's wrong of them to pressure you. When it's your time that's exactly what it'll be.

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ForMyPeaceOfMind

11 years ago

Don't feel pressured into anything! You will know when the time is right!

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Misslady2769

11 years ago

im 18, im the same. do it when it feels right and when you fell that the guys really cares about you :P its all about you!

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ralcor

11 years ago

What do you look like? Fatties, ugly, weird or screwed up chicks usually have problems finding someone to want to fuck them. So find out what's wrong with yourself and fix it so you can get laid.

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- winterskiss1991
  
  11 years ago
  
  I am not fat or ugly. I have guys wanting to I am just afraid and want it to be the right one
  
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  - KrunkFu
    
    11 years ago
    
    There is SOMETHING abnormal about you if you're 30 and still a virgin.. Sex is nothing more than sex, we are an animal species just like everything else on this planet meant to reproduce, animals have sex all the time and most do it without lust or pleasure, but instinct. We LOVE sex, and get much pleasure from it.. It's in our nature so why the FUCK would you be scared to? Once you do it you're going to hate your self for waiting so long. Don't worry about the right one, just have fun and date casually with sex. When the right one comes, he comes.
    
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    - Lynxikat
      
      11 years ago
      
      Yes, how dare she to NOT want to be promiscuous! How dare she be a virgin!
      
      Your life is in such distraught because there is one person who is not interested in mindless fucking! Clearly, EVERYONE IN THE WORLD SUCKS unless they've had sex!
      
      Seriously, sex isn't that big of a dead. Who the hell cares if someone's gotten laid or not? At the end of the day, it doesn't matter. Getting a good job matters. Moving out of mommy and daddy's house and living on your own without their help matters. Hell, paying your bills matters. But getting laid? Uh, who cares?
      
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    - Daniel17
      
      11 years ago
      
      Shut up, nobody cares about your complaining.
      
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  - Kingdominick240
    
    6 years ago
    
    Can we talk
    
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- Bitchfromheaven1111
  
  11 years ago
  
  Wtf, no it means they are not a slut
  
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Ibelievethis

11 years ago

Your friends (or so called) need to start worrying about theirselves, as aposed to worrying about when (to use their words) you get laid. It's your body and you only give yourself to someone when you are ready to. Nothing prepares you for losing you virginity though expect a little discomfort and pain and a little bleeding the first time, but it's totally normal and everyone's got to have their first time, haven't they. xx

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kelili

11 years ago

that's the most popular question on IIN

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raysimpson

11 years ago

Don't worry about it. My friend was the same. We got him laid at 32 for the first time. He said it was great at first to finally know the feeling. but he still has trouble meeting girls and really all he can say is he is not a virgin. He said life hasn't changed and two years later all he has is just the one experience. My advice would to keep trying to date and let it happen because it will

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curiousmonkey

11 years ago

if u keep ur virginity till u hit 100 u will turn into a faerie, so unless u wanna be one u should get laid before tht

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Bitchfromheaven1111

11 years ago

That's so cute, way to wait for the right guy or one. Not a alot of people do that these days !!!! Just50 yr virgin is too much

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anti-hero

11 years ago

Shuggy, get to work on this one.

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- shuggy-chan
  
  11 years ago
  
  WHY am i some sort of make a wish provider, no i'll pass it on to my menti failed casa so he can get his cherry popped as well
  
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  - anti-hero
    
    11 years ago
    
    I'll allow it.
    
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    - shuggy-chan
      
      11 years ago
      
      i hope your reading casa
      
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